Okay, so there's this girl in my class, let's call him A. A is friends with every other girl in the class and everyone seems to like her. wherever she is, the others are there too. I'm fine with it, but there's one problem...
She kinda hates me. I don't know why though. I haven't said anything bad about her, I haven't acted rude around her or anything...
I should just not care right? Well, the thing is that all the other girls are always with her so I can't talk to them and be friends with them, because A will look at me like I'm an idiot and make the other girls do the same. I really planned to make some friends this year.

Any advice of what should I do? I really want to at least TRY to make some friends.

If anyone wants to be my friend(ha ha), then my kakaotalk ID is jams4everyone and LINE ID is saikakyuubi. And if you don't have either of them, my facebook is Vilma Marie. I only use messenger tho. :D

No one can just Hate someone,(for no reason at least) basically get to the bottom of why she hates you and that could help. And if she hates you for no reason then go for it. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take

Why dont you ask her why she hates you and what you did?

She probably loves you and hides her feelings because she does not know how to explain her love to you.

>>4
I wouldn't go that far. I think it's a little less complex than that, actually.
Look, don't let one person get in the way of your fun with friends.
Their bandwagon hopping is a result of your reaction to her distaste in you. You have to overcome that and show them you're not afraid- that you won't back down for someone with a superiority complex.
She doesn't like you? Give her something worth respecting. -and you know what else? Personally, I wouldn't care if she came to liking me afterwards. -but you know.. you might.. so when eventually she does; get to the bottom of her behavior. Confront her on the subject. Then you'll find an equal ground to root your relationship with her.(No, not romantic.)

I just transferred schools this year, and have been having an incredibly tough time making friends, so I know where you are coming from. I am barely getting by in my classes, and it makes finding time to make friends even harder, and not having friends makes getting around in my classes harder, because I have no support. So I will definatley be your friend, it would help both of us, I don't have facebook or either of those other things, but my email is still hitsuji.dollars@gmail.com
To help your situation, all I can say is, be yourself, don't try to be someone you are not to be their friends, if you do they won't be true friends

>>3 because she won't answer anyways. Or she doesn't have an answer at all...
>>4 XD
>>5 Actually, I still have no friends, but the COULD be my friends if I made some. But thanks to A, I don't really have the chance.
>>6 I'm always myself :)

Thanks for the advice everyone :)

Oh and I noticed that she doesn't count me as a human.

>>8 So then, I presume she considers you something far less, such as perhaps referring to you as an "it" or "That thing". How incredibly rude! You seem just as much human as the next girl. It's quite the shame they start out so young these days, and I haven't the slightest as to why anyone would want to hurt anyone else in such a way for no reason.
I'm sorry if the world appears so unforgiving. To tell you the truth, I was the same way until I hit 13. Nobody really cared to get involved with me even though I tried so hard. Eventually I become hateful, then apathetic, but that's no way to live.
I encourage you to press on and keep trying no matter how long it takes. There's someone out there who'll accept you- no tons! After all- the people here do, and man- do I wish I had that when I was younger! I won't make this all about me, but just trust me, I've started out with nothing and now I feel like I have everything I ever wanted just because I tore down those walls and built my life from scratch, so no matter what; don't give up on yourself. Don't give up on the world. I'm sorry it has to be so difficult, Vilma.

heck just avoid them make friends with other people there obviously a bad influence in your social life. If not just avoid A and befriend the other ones, and avoid trouble k. If A seems reasonable maybe just ask her why?

>>10
It was stated that A is popular and influences the better judgement of most other kids. In which case; it's quite the bit more difficult to make any friends at all. She is relatively young, I'd say. Probably around middle school, which is to say that there's hardly reason to their madness. They're a bunch of kids who value status over a single friend's quality.
So, ultimately- I'd feel some surge of pride if I were Vilma. It's on them if they lost a great friend, and maybe she is alone, but I'd rather be that than submerged in fake smiles and backhanded compliments.
'course, I don't want her feeling that way either. Feeling like the only good person around gets bland and depressing. So do with that what you will and try to revise your response.

Thanks for the advice everyone :)

Update - A has started talking to me and I think she counts me as a human now. maybe. Anyways, I think she still kinda hates me.
And I discovered one thing - she's using her friends. Like, I've watched her a little and I discovered that she lets her friends do all the hard work while she is just resting and doing nothing. I don't really like this. And her 'friends' don't mind it at all. I think I don't even want to be friends with the girls in my class anymore.

The problem is I still need a friend.

>>13 You can ask a girl if she minds doing all the work while she does nothing. Or ask why they all follow her. You can make male friends too you know?