I am writting because I a devastated. Today I got kicked out of my church because my ex girlfriend decided that it would be fun for her to tell the pastor that i was harrasing her. I am devastated and suicidal thoughts well they seem more like ideas. I wish I could get back at them. I wish there was something I could do but I cant. The pastor threaten me. Both decided that it would be fair to get the cops involved and now I cant even set my face in the place that i looked for solice. Church. I resign my faith. I am no longer a Christian. I thought that Christians healed and that they had heart and compasion. but they are heartless. I just wish to be able to do something but I can't. Thats why suicide seems like a good idea. its the only thing i can do make eerything go away.

Would any dollar help me? Maybe plan something that the dollars can do to get solid revenge on all this?


I am seriously asking the Dollars for help.

My friend getting revenge will make matters worse. Go to court and show the evidence that you are innocent. IK it sound rough but all you need to do is calm down and think rationally. Don't plot revenge and don't run from court. You will only fall into a hole you can't get out if. Try a new faith. Hinduism or Judaism. Just don't do anything rash.

I dont want to do anything rash. I just want people to not go there. Maybe start a rumor. I would do it myself but i cant. but the Dollars can. I am asking for help. So they dont do the same thing for someone else. at least the church

Having been ostracized by my old church, I empathize with you strongly. But let me save you a lot of time and tell you that you don't need to go to church to be a Christian. You can have a strong relationship with God without ever going to church, even on Christmas or Easter. I read the Bible and pray every day, and I enjoy fellowship with many of my Christian friends who don't judge me for my decision because they understand why and that it works for me. I encourage you to think about that, but I will respect whatever decision you make for yourself. :)

Having said that, even good Christians aren't above revenge. E-mail me at isaiahorwell.dollars@gmail.com or Kik me at IOrwell2016 and we'll talk. ;)

Don't let things like this get to you and don't look at the church for solace God is your solice your girlfriend lied to the pastor and it made you upset. Don't look for revenge instead pray to God and hand him your problems for he will fix them he will never leave your side if you have faith.

Have you tried going to a new church. If you are able to, try talking to the priest there. Maybe he can help clear things up. Also false accusations are really terrible. I hope it didn't spread too far and you should get it cleared as soon as possible. Best wishes

Fucking go suicidal in such a small matter is stupid sure it's easier to express anger and depression in revenge and suicides won't do you any good. If you die who would even care. The best thing to do is to explain everything to the cops if it comes to the point that this on court keep fighting back. People are fucking hell putting dirt in your good name, but that's how humans really are and it can't be help their will always be strifes in the world cause by them

>>8 I can't go to the cops. I am under threat from the cops. I got threatened.

>>5 I messaged you. Thanks for being open.

>>7 Is the fact that I love that church it was my home. Going to another church means that I am just defeated. It feels that way.

Well it is temporary if you want it to be, it's just until you get things cleared up.

Heres what to do when falsely accused, hope it helps
http://www.criminaldefenselawyer.com/resources/criminal-defense/defendants-rights/falsely-accused-a-crime.htm#

Boopwrang I would do that. But i did call her a bitch and I dont know how that would come up as.

They threatened to kick me out of school if I showed up and I a block from the place which isnt fair. Its stupid because I communicated with my pastor that I was suicidal and told him a lot about my self and he threatened me with making it his mission for me to get expelled. I need help. Its a matter of time before they both do that to try and expel me.

I really need help. I dont have anywhere else to go but the dollars. The Dollars are the only group I can count on.

If I were you, I'd leave them and never return. It may feel like home, but in the end, the people there are not helping this situation at all. It's probably time to start over and find new people.

Keep in mind, I tend not to word my statements well. It seems that you are really having a hard time. My thoughts are with you.

Hey Mons,

I understand the feeling of community that you fear losing. Turning to the noose, however, is a bit extreme in this situation. God knows you are innocent. You know you are innocent, and I know you are innocent. Pray and meditate, ask God to help you. I declare that Jesus took all punishments and illness on the cross, whether that be physical or mental, and died for our sins, but He rose again. He conquered death and suicidal thoughts for you. Believe that God will take things in His hands, and He will help you find yourself again.

The entire situation with your church is incredibly unfortunate. My advice would be to respond with a calmly, and in a way that tells your church superiors that you did NOT harrass your ex. Respond with revenge, and you ex's claim will seem all the more believable. Good luck, I'll be praying.

Leave western religions alone, it's a messy place of hypocrisy and lies. Seek spirituality elsewhere.

That's tough Mons, I'm sorry this is happening to you. I think I can help you, but you'll have to answer some questions for me. It will probably be easier if we communicate through email, so send me your response at hitsuji.dollars@gmail.com
If you don't want to answer any of these questions you don't have to, just know they will help me help you better.

1. How strong are your ties to your church? Is it a firm belief in the teachings, or do you stay there for a community?
2. What branch of christianity are you a part of? What is the church called?
3. Is your church dominate in your area, or is it smaller?
4. Is your family a part of the same church? Is there any way for them to help you, even if they aren't in the same church?
5. How far along are you in schooling? Are you in high school, college? Grade?
6. Do you have anyone on your side, who believes your side of the story, or is everyone against you?
7. How strong are your suicidal thoughts? Are they ever present, is it possible you would go through with it?
8. How recent was your relationship with your ex? Was it a recent breakup, or a long time ago? Who did the breaking up?
9. Was her reason for going to your pastor with this anger at you? Is there any reason she would think you were actually harassing her?
10. Have you had suicidal thoughts before?

I hope I can help, just message me at the above mentioned email, and I will do my best. Don't do anything rash, to yourself, or anyone else.

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