As the title say but i will tell the story so people can give better answers to help me.

both of are a member in an online group but i knew her for almost 8 month and knew she have a mental problem : personalty disorder (i believe this its name..) and from what she told me that when she is happy and when something happen she get in really bad mood and feel really down she thought to kill herself many time but this time is really diffrenent, why?

there a stupid drama happened in that group and it was like 4 or 5 days from today she left the group to start a better life because 2 face B!&*$`s are start to make a problem from nothing and 1 person are still talking S*!% about her and that making her feel so so so bad that she had to go to suicide center to talk with someone .

i always try to cheer her up and telling her that she is strong and i believe in her , but when someone is sad its usually hard to cheer him/her up .

i need help in ways to make her feel better and try to ignore these 2 face B!T$H`s and remove this suicide idea she have.

PS.i live far away from her so i cant do much sadly...

just make her promise you she wont do anything. also try to always be t=with her ok. and compliment her every morning. make her feel needed. discuss minor issues with her that wont make her sad but will also make her feel important. i wish you luck man i hope it all works out. ik the pain my dude.

You can't make anyone promise anything. Besides, it's just a word. It doesn't set anything in stone.
If your friend is suicidal it's because they've suffered enough to consider it, so think for a moment first if it's really your place to intervene. Know that your motives aren't solely selfish, and then analyze her situation. Ask and listen, be there for them. Sometimes, that's all anyone really needs.
However, sometimes it can't possibly take any more or less. More often than not, you can't tell someone something they Don't already know. It takes a warmer tone and the right kind of person to deliver the message, but some people just can't be saved.
Knowing that, you have to prepare for the worst, but more than that;take them as seriously as you possibly can. It means their whole world that you do.

Vigilance.

Show her the beauty of the world so that when she is depressed she has a reason to fight back and that's to see the beautiful world again. Just make her like something in the world that if she dies she'll lose that thing she likes so she would learn to fear death. Something that she would like that has a greater value than her life, it doesn't have to an object it can be in a form of friendship and Socializing

>>2 i did make her promise me few months ago and im planning to remind her about that , thank you for your advice ^^

>>3 yes promises can be just a word , but there people who take the word "promise" as something really important , this girl will be A GREAT person in the future i tell you that ! , and she stood up with me when i needed help and im ready to take any risk to help her i will be there for her anytime she need me so dont worry. thank you for your advice ^^

>>4 that is what i did to fear death i loved the life and everything in life , and yes i will do my best of what i can do to help her ! , thank you for your advice ^^

PS.She felt kinda better after she gone to the suicide center , but im still open for more advice in the future to help her when she need help.

Make sure your friend knows this. My ARMY instructor tells us this every year. "SUICIDE IS A PERMANENT SOLUTION FOR A TEMPORARY PROBLEM." Never let a friend die on you its hard.

Identify what is stessing her most and, if she lets you, help eliminate or manage those stress. Doing so can improve her ability to keep a more positive outlook.

You do not want to be the only one helping her, so if possible, inform those you think can help monitor her without being too intrusive (you don't want her to think negatively of your/others involvement).

You also want to strike a good balance between not leaving her alone nor making her dependent on you. If anything worse happens and you are not there to help, you don't want her to feel abandonned/betrayed.

That being said, good luck and hope she recovers well.

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