Hello there! Long time no see...
I came here to ask for help AGAIN, since I get really much help from this site.
I'm pretty confused about my life and everything. I need your advice ;_;

1. My mom and dad don't get along at all. I live with my mom and she always tells me and my sisters how bad dad is and stuff. But when I visit my dad, he tells me how bad mom is. I don't know which side to take. I mostly think the same as mom, but when I think more deeply, I don't think my dad is a bad person. He may be a parasite who is using everyone, but he's still my dad.
2. I overcame my depression after I got into high school, but now I'm basically between happiness and depression. I don't know what is my dream, I don't have friends, but for some reason, there's a little piece of hope in me.
What should I do to be happy? How should I get friends? What should I do with my life?

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Be neutral,don't take any side. For now,you should focus on your school and dream.
And...you are same with me,I don't know what is my dream,it makes me confused.. But your dream must be something that is interesting for you

>>2 It's actually kinda hard to be neutral tbh. But thanks for the advice though.

I feel like you should support both of them and suggest a compromise of sorts. Also mention that you don't want to hear it. If your parents love you they'll understand its stressing you. Also ik it's rough but find a club or sport or even talk to online friends. You can always visit me on the chat sites. And don't be scared to not be popular and remember to be yourself you are beautiful.

Also don't be scared to not have a dream I'm in my junior year and I have no clue what I'm gonna do just figure out how to study and stay happy. Get good grades and start looking at college around 11th grade thats what I'm doing. Frankly I don't know what I'll do for a jobs though. Just remember to do things that make you happy and to hang out with people who support ya.

I too have been in a similar situation. My dad used me and my sister as emotional crutches, he would just take his stress and anger out on us because he didn't have anyone else. It was pushing me down, further than I realized until I looked back on how my life had been changing. The past six years I have slowly been digging a deeper hole for myself, building a bigger wall to escape the reality I was dealing with. Eventually it became too much for us to bear and we told him how we were feeling, and asked him to stop. We wanted him in our lives, just not the way he was. Close to a month later without going to see him, he almost died. He was in the hospital for the next month, and the doctors had very little help. When this happened, his entire side of my family worked together to try and help him, and he was able to recover. The point of this is, if you need help, and your situation is too hard for you to bear, ask for help from your extended family, friends, friends of your parents, in order to help not only you, but your parents. I can tell by the way you worded your post, you care deeply for your parents, but you need them to stop pushing you down. Use others as support, and tell them how you are feeling.

Good luck friend. I hope you find what you are looking for.

your parental situation, I got no advice.

The friends and dreams thing though, don't worry too much about it. Just pick a hobby you like and talk about it. Maybe some people will talk to you about their hobbies. Dreams, shoot, I've never met a single person who was extremely passionate about completing one goal for the rest of their lives, especially not while I was in highschool. I'm two years and a half out of highschool and I'm just living the working life. Seems normal; to me to not have a huge dream. To some people their dreams are usually coorelated with their hobbies, but instead of making that a career, it's a hobby.

You can't side with either of them really. Honestly I'm currently in a situation like that too and they just don't care but you can always at least make sure to have them show more respect around you. That so b/c for you it's not possible to understand what's wrong btw them since they'll argue about stuff you can't really talk about to say who did the wrong. Everyone have stories who know how much they possibly stretch the truth. Tell your parents that it's stressing you to see this constantly and all you want is respect in front of you since that situation is more than what you can handle and they should probably see a therapist together since they have so much stress among each other. Hopefully this advice will help. If it doesn't work that situation will make you mentally ill b/c I had to get serious help since my parents don't care and I feel my mom is worst than my dad but my dad has it flaws too b/c his health condition makes him do things that I really wish I can't approve but that just means I need to move out.

Thanks for advice everyone :)

It's no issue really I just hope you feel better

I know I'm probably l8 and all but, I think you should ignore the both of them for a bit

look at them both analyze what they say pute their points on a side by side comparison. think hard and long this is tough. and remember make sure what ever you choice you make you need to be happy with it at the end of the day we can all put our 2 sense in it but non of us have to live with it just make sure you are happy with the choice.

When you're with one of your parents, pretend that you're the parent just listening to one of your kids talking about their sibling. This will prevent you from taking sides.