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Friend problem (8)

1 Name: Iloveanimu2468 : 2016-09-15 22:47 ID:T/Q5bgeS [Del]

Today at my school, I have had assembly.My teacher asked me to help clean the classroom.2 of my friends (i have 3 friends but 1 of them is away)wanted to help me clean up.So I told them that they can help me clean up.But the teacher said all of a sudden that we don't need to clean the classroom up.My friends and I lined up for assembly. Suddenly, my teacher asked me to tidy up the classroom.I stayed in the classroom for 40 minutes.Then, I went to assembly.I told my friends that I was in the classroom for minutes.My friends started to push me away and they started ignoring me.I tried to tell them what happened and they would turn their backs.I told my other friends about this.They thought that my 2 friends were weird.I have no idea what to do next.Someone, please help me!

2 Name: Exter : 2016-09-15 23:58 ID:Hom+NmKe [Del]

They just straight up ignore you..? Wow, what a nice thing to do... ignore them too, they don't deserve your attention. I don't think these are good friends anymore... maybe you could get someone else to talk to them, but I dont really think it would help. Lets hope it does.

3 Name: demoness : 2016-09-16 06:27 ID:fYk7lceG [Del]

wellll now, it sounds like those friends who are ignoring you have more personal issues than you do!
whatever is happening with them, they're handling it very poorly by mistreating their friend.
it's not worth your effort to get worried over it. I'm sure it would be difficult to cut them off after having a friendship, but if they are pushing you away for no good reason then their friendship is not even worth fighting for.
whatever you do, don't sit there picking apart the situation and trying to figre out what you did wrong. it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong at all, so just relax and let them figure their issues out. if they are real friends, they will come back to you and apologize and fill you in on what happened., and if they don't then it's not worth your time.

4 Name: Akina : 2016-09-16 16:03 ID:LMF5T9uz [Del]

>>3 I agree
If they're your friends you can only ask what's wrong but if they choose to walk away and not say anything to you there's nothing you can do. They're the ones with the issue not you. You're just a caring person to ask and even go this far to get help. We can't help when something so obvious someone avoiding you no one push themselves on them. They'll come back if they notice you're concern but don't take my word for it to b/c they sometimes don't.

5 Name: Akina : 2016-09-16 16:05 ID:LMF5T9uz [Del]

no one should push themselves on someone. Sorry

6 Name: Unknown : 2016-09-17 00:35 ID:gZOkXFNp [Del]

I feel like their are some holes in what you said about why the teacher wanted you to clean the room alone or why your friends are angry of you, it couldn't be just cause you didn't attend the assembly with them. Someone might be thrashing your reputation, try doing some research like what people do in anime's.

7 Name: Akina : 2016-09-18 19:29 ID:LMF5T9uz [Del]

>>6 That person might be right about that too but you have to try breaking down clues.

8 Name: Iloveanimu2468 : 2016-09-18 21:43 ID:zMrR6wtc [Del]

ok.Thank you everyone for giving me advice ^^