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1 Name: ShyNeko : 2016-09-15 14:44 ID:vdAMgr8P [Del]

Hey, im dating a female and im a female too my parents are homophobic. I want to tell them im bi-sexual but im scared cause they might disown me even though they pertty much do anyways. But I dont know what they will do if i do tell them and im scared they others will judge me even though there is a lot of people are bi, gay, lesbian, pan i dont care though but my girlfriend might..... What should i do?

2 Name: C3ypt1c : 2016-09-15 16:43 ID:zK2542gD [Del]

http://youtu.be/vYoapICIfeE

1. It's gonna be okay...
2. Depending on your parents, assess how likely you are to be actually be "disowned" by them and act accordingly... if you think like you saying anything would be bad, dont do it... wait till you can support yourself... you're still young, theres till time.... here is a song that might help you....

3 Name: Edaneres : 2016-09-16 16:26 ID:a11tJljT [Del]

that is a hard thing to deal with. as C3ypt1c said this is going to all come down on how you believe your parents would react. remember you will probably date 4 or 5 more people in your lifetime so if you think they may react badly don't tell them it is ok to have secrets I have a few things I will never tell my family. I will pray that you things will work out for you.

4 Name: Akina : 2016-09-16 17:05 ID:LMF5T9uz [Del]

Don't tell them yet until you're ready. It'll be rough for you if you're still dependent on them. Talk to your gf though to make sure she fill in on it at least of the situation. If she makes trouble for you, which I have been through before you might have to leave her. I just hope she understands your situation because it's not right if your parents already might give trouble for you she shouldn't either. My ex made it sound like I was hiding her bc I was ashame and she hated being called friend zone. My parents found out she hated it even more bc my mom made fun of her and my dad he didn't really do anything wrong but at like me and her relationship never exist and still says lots of messed up stuff about gays. I'm pan though but I'm currently dating a guy and as long I'm happy that's all that matters. I just believe no one should push their feelings on you knowing a situation though might be rough to handle especially if they aren't either and just lose to care about yours too in hopes to protect them.

5 Name: Unknown : 2016-09-17 00:41 ID:gZOkXFNp [Del]

Be honest if they really love you they would understand and if not they're bastards