I met one boy when I enter high school. He was nice, kind, shy, protective. Soon rumors went around, about me and him dating, when we weren't. He then stopped hanging around me for a while. Until I started to hang around another guy. Funny, Kind, annoying. Then he started to get upset a lot. He argued he didn't like me hanging around the other guy. I got upset at him, because he didn't like my friends, and he picked fights with him.
But it was my fault to make him feel jealous. After that he didn't say a word. The other guy hanged around me. Soon he made me happy. Not so alone. I feel like I have stronger feeling's for one but i'm so unsure.
So if you guy's can tell me your thought?

It's funny because someone I know was going through something similar not too long ago.

Anyway, here's what I'll tell you.

Think of all the pros and cons between these two guys.
Make a literal list and judge it from there.
Like you said, your're in high school.

Things move really quickly there, and you're twice as likely to get sucked into some kind of extraordinary.

I know the whole list thing sounds kind of dumb and or materialistic(?), but these situations aren't resolved as easily as what to have for lunch tomorrow.

And if worst comes to worst, literally flip a coin haha.

Because I once heard, that If you flip a coin to make your decision, as it's spinning, falling, and hitting the ground, you almost instantly know which side you hope it lands on, and there is your choice.

Just don't look at it when it lands and think about which side you instinctively wanted it to be and go with that one.


I wish you the best and good luck in high school if you just got there. It's gonna be one hell of a ride. But I'm sure you'll do fine. If anything, you got the dollars.

Another thing you should consider:

Do not wait too long to pick between them unless you want to risk losing them both.

It might sound nice to just let things rest and not choose, and risk accidentally hurting someone. -And you can do just that, of course. But keep in mind that you might inadvertently make them both lose interest in you, because they think you don't care enough to pursue a relationship with them.

Choose whoever makes you happier!

well, i agree with most of the suggestions already posted. but really, if it was me i'd just be sure to talk to them both soon. even if one or both are being distant- then be the one to approach him, don't just let the connection be lost so quickly. talk to each of them, and choose the one you are the most comfortable with, who you feel at ease with, where you can be yourself without judgement. if that can all be applied to them both, I'd say definitely follow Zora Lee's advice and make yourself that list! there's no shame in weighing options.