It's abit hard for me to explain but a while I met this girl in a anime chat room awhile back and she was sad and depressed that her ex cheated on her, so I helped her through it and then she asked me out so I accepted just for the deck of it. So my problem is I have not seen a rl pic of her and she lives faraway. I know a little bit about her and vice versa but I don't think I know enough but don't know what to ask. Also every single time I met with her she always wants to rp sex with me and I am getting bored of it and I don't what's the best way to tell her that. Regardless I just paranoid since I do not know what she looks like not that I am shallow or anything and about long distance in general.

Well I also accepted because she is nice

I'm probably a shallow person, 'cause long distance relationships would be impossible for me, partially because I legally can't drive because of a medical condition. I also would never rp sex with anyone ever under any circumstances even if I did know what they looked like. Atleast I don't think I would... Anyways thats me, but you... You make a skype account. Ask her to make one too. After that, ask to live chat. If not then.... Ummm, I have no clue how snapchat works,but maybe try that with no filters. After that, if you don't live chat and or voice chat (some guys can do girl voices pretty well though). If she sends a pic, do a google image search of it, if you get more than one result with that picture the girl could be catfishing you. If she doesn't put any effort into showing you who she is, don't rp anything with her anymore. Also, copy and paste everything you said here and send it as a text directed to her. Another way to know is to ask her to send a picture of herself touching her ear and or her nose with a specific hand and finger. If she does this, then you'll know she's not catfishing you. Do a google image search of whatever she sends you too anyway, just in case. Good luck OP

She does not have a phone but plans to get one and she said tried to create a Skype but it got laggy for her. Also secretly I think she is abit to shy of what she looks like which is why I am paranoid but I will try next time I see her on the chat. Also if I try to break up with her I think she mite get depressed and emotional again.

Ahh I see how this could be difficult..
I think being honest with her will get the best results, you shouldn't have to feel this way and she must be unaware of it. Maybe try hinting it to her first, like every time she tries to sex rp you, make excuses to why you can't at that moment, stuff like that. But I think even though it's hard to do, be honest with her ツ

How do you think I should start Shizuku? Other wise I can do the excuse route and how would I hint?

Bump

I hate hinting, I'm a pretty dense person, so I prefer being straightforward, hints can mean anything at all!!!!!

But even though I said that, here's some excuse ideas to not rp anything and some very obvious and uderstandable hints as well as to other things you should bring up:

If she wants to RP sex or anything else involve your bodies, say "Hey if you're shy about your looks and don't trust me enough to let me know what you look like we shouldn't be RPing anything related to actions with our bodies" then say something like, "I want you to be confident of your looks and this kind of teasing is more likely to have a negative effect than a Positive one in that regard, so I'm going to stop RPing stuff with you until I know you get your hands on a phone and be confident enough to send a pic, I'll send you one too just so that you know I care."

If you think she's shy but not telling you say, "Hey,I secretly think sometimes that you're a bit to shy of what you looks like which kind of makes me paranoid but I will try every time we chat to get to know you more. Are you shy?"

The break-up thing is what should be slowly hinted at if you worry that it will cause her depression so, ask things in a way that might 'cause her to initiate the break up instead of you, like "so, what did you and your ex break up?" "Why did you decide to go out with me right after something so big happened in your life?" "What if I was catfishing you, Why did you take the risk to say yes to me, a completely random stranger on the internet." Basically, make her have doubts in you, so that she can initiate the break-up herself and move on. That way you'll know she'll leave as a more confident person who can make her own independant decisions instead of a sad and and depressed girl, good luck OP.

Thanks man I will mention this next time I see her online

>>9 good luck then :)

Wait I just realized something the anime chat we use does not allow us to share pics unless I or her use it as a avatar pic. Regardless I did share my avatar rl pic with her.

ok >>11 well, I got no more advice. Everything's up to you in the end really. so you stick to it if you want to. Just be yourself.

This is going to sound harsh but ditch her. As in just don't reply back. Move on, really. Those kind of people are the kind that drag you down with them, and usually their stories are just made up or exaggerated. Also the fact that she doesn't reveal anything about herself and just wants to sext tells me you're just for fun and nothing more. So like I said, just move on.

I plan to I just been busy and thinking about how I will do it