So sorry for ranting/idk and telling u my life story but i REALLY need some help in my love life >.<




I've been dating this guy for about 2 months, we were perfectly fine except for the fact i don't like the idea of love. But this one day we had a little fight and it turns into a, ignore you all day say my friends are the only ones who have been there for me and tell you, you don't understand, while i sit there texting him and he completely ignores me but still texts others. i waited a couple days and let it settle, trying to get the right time to talk, but he only said i should do what i want to do, and he wouldn't tell me what was wrong with us. After awhile i thought everything was good until my friend told me he has been telling people we were over, this of course surprising the hell out of me, i texted him right away, he didn't answer but in a group chat he begun talking to his friend about going on a double date with another girl, so i dumped him, told him we could be friends and he was sad but accepted it and left, i tried my best to fix it but he just.... i don't know. In the very end he now texts me that he misses me what do i do.......

Well, you fucked up, he fucked up, pretty much past the point of no return.

Just do whatever you want to do? What do you want to do with your relationship? Think about that, act on that.

Well first off the real question is do you have feelings for him still? If you do and he is sad about the break up than you two should definitely try talking about this FACE TO FACE, this is not a conversation you should be having over the phone or through texting. The bottom line is that everyone in relationships argue, that's just the nature of it, however it's how you both take the arguments that matter. Do you really want an argument to effect what you have or are you truly over? That's my advice.

I agree with >>3. One of the stupidest things you can do is try to communicate seriously online. Face to face is the best way to settle things. If you were to text someone something, you can't be sure that they'll interpret the message like you meant it. You can't physically send emotions through a message. You also lack the ability to use tone.