I have a crush on this guy. He has a girlfriend (of course) and has been with her for over a year. She's also my friend. Really temperamental, they bicker (she gets mad over nothing and runs off, he's clueless) and she threatens to break up with him constantly. Just saying that to show how annoying their relationship is to me. I still love my friend dearly.

How to deal with it? "Well hur dee dur, just get over it and don't be a bitch!" Im-fucking-possible. This 'crush' or whatever the fuck has been going on for three years. It's about as easy to get over than if the Earth was placed on Earth regardless of gravity and I was told to jump over it.

Granted, in the first few months when I was younger I was creepy and really passionate about it (Hence why he started dating someone else, probably to escape all of the fanfiction and creepiness). But now, we're really great friends despite all that. I can't look at him without well... lovey dovey shit. Embarrassingly enough.

Starting to lose it, because I always find the wrong person to move on with, loneliness ensues and I get more huggy and glompy than normal. With all of my friends, which they all gladly accept. With him it's hard to stay away from cuddling or glomping or hugging excessively, or break eye contact, or act like I do with everyone else. Every time I see him I'm at both extremes of happy as hell and sad as hell because of the circumstances.

I honestly was thinking of telling him I still liked him. But that'd just make everything complicated, or ruin things, and there's only a tiny chance we would be able to continue on to be friends like we are. I also want him to just stay happy, I guess. I might have to ask him how he feels about his relationship with her...

I've asked a few of my friends, and they can't tell me what to do because they're confused as well. Anyone the master of relationship (maybe friendship) advice? Please. I'd need that. And if anyone needs any more details in order to give me proper advice, I will give them as long as they are within reason. Thank you, anyone who responds. Sorry for the swears, it's either that or crying blubbery mess.

Kiss him.

My advice: do not do what #2 said.
My other advice: Tell your friend who is dating him how you feel and then see if she thinks is weird, if she doesn't, ask her to ask him what he thinks of you and ask her if its okay to tell him. If he's really into your friend he'll find it weird and probably turn you down again, but in a way that doesn't ruin your friendship you've had. If he's not so into your friend then, they might break-up and your really tiny chance at being with him might be a bit bigger. I imagine that this is a scenario that might work, but other than this, I can't think of anything else. (This is coming from a tree who's only been in one relationship that has failed, so no need to take this seriously).

>>3 Another thing I forgot to mention is that she's crazy and jealous of literally everyone. Even if he talks to a guy in a weird way. She trusts me, but that's only because she doesn't know. Thanks, though.

Their relationship sounds pretty unhealthy. Perhaps you should talk to them about it? I don't really know what to do, since I've never been in one of these situations before.

>>4 i got no words tovsay now, I can't think of anything that'll work.

bumping 'cause it feels necessary. Also the way you describe your friend and her man sounds like it's not going to work out anyway so your chance might still come.

Welp... he just broke up with his cunty girlfriend so that's good news.

Now is the time to strike! If you don't do it now, someone else will!

/an update: He moved away, and is a fuckboy now. He even got rid of his voluptuous hair. So, good riddance!

(Also have dated many people in-between the dates of these two posts)