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Friend/Parents problem? (7)

1 Name: Ani : 2016-06-23 19:09 ID:zMrR6wtc [Del]

I have a friend that I had a fight with.She's always being mean to me and she always try to fit in with me and my sister.My sister doesn't really like her and I don't really like her as well.I don't really talk to her but I am forced to.My friends mum and my mum are really good friends.I nearly have to meet her every Saturday.My mum noticed this and she took away all my devices.Well, I am om my computer secretly because I really need help.What should I do? I really don't wanna talk to my friend because she is soo mean to me.What am I going to do?

2 Name: FindMuck !MrEff/SKhc : 2016-06-23 19:28 ID:4yTqSet5 [Del]

None of you sound very nice if I'm being honest...

It's not important though. Just try to cooperate.

3 Name: Crystalus : 2016-06-23 21:53 ID:OsBPykjP [Del]

Ok here's what I think:

If your mother noticed that you and your sister don't like her and she took away your devices because of it, then you should REALLY have a talk with her about what this girl does. On moments like this when you think you don't have a way out of the trouble, you can only stand up to it.

So here are the three options I present you...

1 - Talk to your mother about this girl and her actions. Despite yout mother being friends with her mother, she should understand.

2 - Have a talk with the girl and say everything you think of her, but keep in mind that you will have to accept the consequences as well

3 - Do nothing, accept your burden since we all eventually die of something.

Good luck ;)

4 Name: Nowhere2Run : 2016-06-23 23:56 ID:NApLUOpb [Del]

Don't do nothing. Talk to your mom. Most parents only want to help and if you sit her down and talk to her about this girl, then maybe she'll react and help you. Most parents care about their children more than their friends (I would hope). Your mom is only there to help. Talk to her.

5 Name: Manga Owl : 2016-06-24 01:14 ID:erymdPSH [Del]

If your mum imposed restrictions like taking away your devices just because you're having individualistic thoughts of your own about whether or not you like someone, maybe it's time to have a little talk with your mum about how, even if she's friends with that person's mother, you don't really like them, and that there's nothing she can do to force you like them.
As far as that friend is concerned, just ignore them as long as possible. When you reach breaking point and they're still annoying you, tell them to politely leave you alone. I'm pretty sure your mother would rather be on your side.

6 Name: Taegumi : 2016-06-24 05:31 ID:JiANXXUq [Del]

Be honest with her and your mom. If you have had enough then say it loud and clear. Your mom cant force you to like her because you're YOU and no one can tell you what to do or who to like. And if that doesn't work treat her how she's treating you and make that apparent.

7 Name: Ani : 2016-07-07 23:09 ID:sQXqrTLA [Del]

Thank you everyone!! Thx for you wonderful advice. I hope this works out with my mum! Thx a lot!! ^^