I'm depressed, my boyfriend broke up with me cause of my ex. I don't understand why. If my boyfriend loves me then he would of fought and stayed right? I don't know what to do now. I cant sleep, I cant eat. I cant even look at myself in the mirror cause I just break down, and cry. I need help or someone to help take the pain away. please someone. This group is like family to me, so please, I'm asking yall as a second family. Help me. Tell me how to make my chest stop hurting, and how to stop crying. Please, Please. I just want the pain to stop.

While I'm not the best at talking people through things, and chances are I'll say a lot of cliche things that you will already expect to hear, I want to at least try to help. I've noticed that no one replied yet and I don't wanna leave someone alone through hard times.

What I can offer as a solution is just cry at first. I have been through situations like this where nothing seems to help and you just wanna hide away from the world. Letting out your emotions is probably the best first step to getting better. I used to do lots of art and listen to music when I felt down. It helps taking your mind off a bit, or maybe helps express your feelings a little better.

Then I think you should take a walk. Maybe hang out with friends? Get yourself in a better place and remember what made you happy before you had even met him. You were able to make it through then so it is completely possible now.

The last thing I am able to suggest is just talk it out with people. Sometimes people just need to have a shoulder to cry on before they can start feeling better.

I hope I could at least help a little bit, and I hope you can get to a better place soon. Try and stay positive and you will feel better in no time! =)

Find a better guy, babe.
You deserve more than that.
Or you can just watch anime, it'll help you feel better.

Enjoy your life. Do things, which let you feel alive.

I don't know, what are the things you like to do, but try to make something outside your house. Stopping the pain can be made by stopping isolate oneself and reintegrate into society. Contact friends and have fun.

NothingBAR suggested that you should cry. I recommend this too, but at one moment you must say that it is enough and move on.

Good luck Kikyo! Keep Moving! Be Happy (Louis Armstrong)!

Dependent much. Forget him. Do you have a shrine for him? He's not anyone special. Slap yourself, or get someone to slap you(I would gladly do it), and live normally. Jesus.

Microcosmal how about I slap you. Kikyo is her for support. Not to listen to you hating mouth. You dont have to be here you know. Your just looking for a fight cause your a dumb ass loser. Get a life and leave kikyo alone. Kikyo just need some support and love right now. She dont need haters like you in her life. Now Micro get some manners and respect before I knock some in you.

Well, everyone has their own ways of coping up with breakups. So, although we might suggest something, please don't be upset or think it's your fault if the idea we suggest isn't really working for you.

But let me say this, if the breakup was recent, then of course you'll be hurting a ton. Especially if you really did love them! Don't blame yourself or think something is wrong with you just because they broke up with you. I mean, you did say your boyfriend broke up with you due to your ex, right? He probably felt inferior to your ex, or maybe thought he wasn't living up to your expectations or that he isn't as great as a boyfriend as your ex was? I mean, there's been plenty of times when I was in a relationship and yet I sometimes felt like I wasn't a good enough person for them.

Either way, you may or may not be able to move on from this break up right away. Just know, if you need to cry, then cry. It's better to let out how you're feeling rather than keeping it all bottled up, because sometimes that can just make you feel even worse.

But I'd like to ask, what are things you really enjoy doing? It's best to try to do things you love to be able to get your mind off of him. And I do agree with what NothinBAR had said. You were able to do things on your own before you met him, so just know that you're still able to do so now!


Also, also! Although you may not feel like it, but please at least try to eat and get some shut-eye! I wouldn't want anything serious to happen to your lovely self, and I'm sure those around you wouldn't either.

I've been withholding judgement until I learn what the "because of my ex" part means...

Breakups are always rough to go through. I would recommend taking some time to forget about it and move on. I'm sure you'll find someone truly worth loving, but in the meantime, hang in there and remember you're beautiful just the way you are.

I know the guy. he was the worst. its ok babe. I will always be here for you. I'm sorry my friend Dann is such a total bitch.