1 Name: Kailee : 2016-04-24 21:58 ID:6AVTOsGA [Del]
Okay so my friends and I are a group that we made but recently they start fighting out of no where. One of my friend's name is Amber and she's adopted because her birth mother abused her and the other one is Audrey, Audrey has a decent life and is the only sibling. But recently...them two have been fighting a lot recently. Like Amber would like hug us out of no where (since she loves skinship) but these past few weeks Audrey would like get mad at Amber because whenever Amber hugs us Audrey would be like "Stop Amber!" and then Amber would be like "Chill Audrey, are you on your period or something?" But they both know it's a joke but after that keeps on happening every day Audrey gets mad.
So Amber and I have 5th period together with just the two of us since Audrey has mg reading teacher as her language arts teacher and I would ask Amber if her and Audrey were still friends but Amber would reply "No, during 4th period Audrey and I had a fight so we're basically on the verge of not being friends anymore" and on Friday Audrey wasn't here so I told Amber 3rd period (since all three of us had that and 6th period together) and Amber was like "Good, because lately Audrey has been acting like a bitch to me lately" so I think Amber is starting to get mad at Audrey too.
On Audrey's side, she says that Amber is getting more aggressive and that the group should just break up since there is going to be no use to it since Audrey might go to a private school and I am moving to North Carolina since it's getting more and more expensive in Florida so yeah....
Can somebody give me advice please because I don't want the group to break up and no matter what I do to get them back to friends again, it'll never work
2 Name: ShinAttha : 2016-04-25 18:40 ID:f0H1Bg7e [Del]
I'm sorry to say this, but people change, that's a good thing, but it can also lead to friends breaking apart. Also, if you're moving anyways, your group of friends will take a hit too. You can keep in contact and visit of course, but if that actually happens, you probably won't have to care about their quarrels. If they don't meet too often, they won't annoy each other either.
As for what you can do now, despite what I said before, small conflicts usually don't break bonds. If there's a precise reason for them, then resolving that issue will lead to them coming back together, strengthening their bond. However, if there is no clear cause, you should consider whether they can really reunite or if they've already become too different.
