Hi evryone , a friend of mine is in love with a guy who is totally an asshole with her , it's like 6 month i told her he is stupid but she did nothing ( he really don't care about her , never send her a message , this kind of things ) and it's make me sad for her to see that she cry for him , sorry to bother you about that but what can i do for her to make her understand that ? :/

This topic has baffled the greatest mind's that has ever lived there's no explanation as to why people tolerate such behavior it's just something that person needs to learn for themselves all you can do is be a good friend and watch for signs of physical abuse and seek lawful help or talk to the parents if things escalate further you could save a life but you might risk your friendship if you're friend is stubborn

Mmmh that's what i think too , thank you for your answer :)

“We accept the love we think we deserve.”

-Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

I was long back in a same position as your friend. I can understand how much it hurts and that's why maybe she does not want to accept that fact. maybe you can talk to that guy and maybe record the conversation to give her some kind of proof? :D

>>4 That's so true 0.0....No wonder I've got internal conflict atm.

>>1 All you can do is give her anecdotal evidence of what happened to people who followed this route. Otherwise she might have to learn it the hard way.

Thanks all of you i will speak with her

You should be straightforward about it. If you don't tell her, it won't get any better at all and she could be hurt more because of it.