I have like no experience with this but that guy sounds like a huge jerk! He just used you! I get that you fell of this guy and not because you did it with him. (I won't use the word) This guy just used you like he said. he doesn't even care that you like him! He's just one big jerk! You deserve better! again I have no experience with this.

I want him and only him why am i so attached to him ??

That guy is definitely an asshole for telling you he used you I got an overly attached girl issue but That's just hitting below the belt guy needs face busted . Why are you overly attached idk im the guy im asking myself what does this girl like about me im nice but i can be a little bit of di%k head like teasing like she says my nipple hurts or something like that ill say maybe its broke ill a light punch in the arm now im dead from how cute she was from being embarrassed .

Then again school relationships are a joke to began with ween i was in high school 96 out 300 student got pregnant it was so awkward i took my senior year over the computer the 96 girls had no help getting around from the dads might as well say 96 single moms

This guy is like my first so i think thats why... but he is like totally ignoring me right now and im like hurt as hell right now im like crying right now...

I think you should find someone else, any guy that tells you to your face that he used you does not deserve your love or respect. that is incredibly cruel, insensitive and in my own person opinion disgusting and you definitely deserve way better. I know it hurts you now but you will be better off finding a man that will cherish you. there are many great people out there and i am sure you will find someone that can make you even happier than this guy. I think you are only attached to him because he was your first and the first experience is always special to an extent

It sounds like you're confusing love and the idea of love. You don't love him; you're just in love with the idea of being in love. Move on and forget about an asshole like him. And think twice before giving yourself away to a guy or you'll end up hurt time and time again. Take your time with relationships to get to know the person. How well do you know that boy you slept with? I'm betting you didn't know him that well.

Sorry if this comes across as harsh, but it upsets me when people like you are taken advantage of by assholes. Take some pride in yourself, stand up for yourself, and don't allow yourself to sink to such a low level for a guy who abused you.

Maybe I could answer your question if everything wasn't either first person pronouns or second person pronouns.

1. Why the fuck does him being the opposite race (and that makes no sense either b/c how can you be the opposite race of someone lol) matter in this context?

2. So you guys both have mental problems. Perhaps that is something you may have needed to specify instead of the race thing? Like what's his issue?

3. If he told you he used you, why do you still have feelings for him. Unrequited love is not healthy (although it sure is fucking hard to get over, so I understand).

4. Do not kill yourself for someone. That only shows you think more highly of someone else than you do of yourself.

5. You probably could love him b/c of the sex. Apparently, when girls have sex they are more attached then a guy, so???

6. Do not tell him how you feel everyday. That is weird and guys don't like that, so if you ever want him to reciprocate (which he probably won't just going to crush that idea now), do not do that. I mean you have dignity, right?

Basically, get over it and in this case, time will heal it.

Hi:)I do understand how you feel but do remember that the humans nature is all about curiosity and searching. I think that you were just curious to get to know him and to feel new sensations but you confuse it with love. Its a very common thing now days and there is nothing wrong about it. But you do need to know to let go and find the one who will really could match you now that you have experience. And there's no need to hurt yourself think of it as a phase in life that comes and then leaves.

Hope it helped:)

We get that you love this guy. But maybe you should think about did you love this guy before you did it with him? I really think that this guy is one huge jerk! You deserve better! If you really can't leave him then maybe over time you will realize that he isn't the guy for you.

I did really love this guy before i had sex with him..

? Do you love yourself i love myself being told i was used to the face its on That's not how one goes about it my advice is love yourself enough to say hes not worth it. im sorry that was your first i was 13 ween i had my first time I was used but we dated an were together night an day an went everywhere together it made the betrayal that much harder on me she just turned her back an walked up the steps my heart sunk. I was the cherry boy im in new relationship so im i got some issues .

This guy is clearly not worthwhile. If he rejects your affections toward him, maybe he's in a stage of denial? I believe one should not give up on these kind of things. If you love someone, you fight for it and hold it close. You can chose to forget about it, it would've been a lot easier. But if you decided to keep it, you need to see to the end and be prepare to face the consequence and accept it. You have to remember that your feelings is not the only one on the line

It will be more easy if you tell us about the guy more detail like his life, his job, his social, how he treat you, and what he feel about you. Btw who confess first you or him.