My boyfriend dumped me on friday and i said i dont care and let it go. (He said he broke up with me becahse hewasgoing to kill himself, i wanted to speak yo him because my friend said he misses me, but i couldnt find him). But its monday now and my friend asked if i would be mad or jealous if he asked one of my friends to the dance. I said i dont know to be honest. I cant tell if im starting to care or something because my emptions are bouncing everywhere! My head is saying talk to him but then it says show you dont care.

Is he really intending to kill himself? so he dumped you because he wants to kill himself, and you want to talk to him because he misses you, so that means you care about him right? then try to find him and talk to him. If you're confused, ask yourself do you really care if he kills himself? since you said you want to show him you don't care.

>>2 thanks. I just found out that at lunch he is giung to ask one my friends to the dance. No ones telling me who it is. They all know who it is though. I dont truly belive he wants kill himself.

My guess is you still care for him. The fact he said he was going to kill himself, breaking up with you, then asking one of your friends to the dance or is going to ask her. My best guess is that while you still like him. he doesn't like you. sounds like he was making up one big lie to break up with you to get together with your friend. of course I'm no expert. So I could be wrong.

Eveyone he was friends with who are my friends all think hes a jerk, were all ignoring him because hes clingy and all. My friend who he is going to ask told me she doesnt like him.

Try to take a step back from the whole situation and ask yourself how you really feel about it all. Although from an outsider's perspective I cannot recommend continuing any type of relationship with him, He lied about breaking up with you because he would kill himself. I find it hard to believe someone suicidal would be planning to ask someone to a social event.