So last year I was in 10th grade, and everything was great. One of my best friends still went to my school, I had a beautiful, funny girlfriend, and I had people I could hangout with during lunch. Even though I wasn't too close to the people I hung out with during lunch, we would talk about how our weekends were, and how our day was going. Everything was good in 10th grade.

But then 11th grade came along.

My best friend that went to my school left for a college prep school, my girlfriend dumped me, and all the people I hung out with during lunch started to go off campus for lunch. I went off campus for lunch a couple of times with the people I use to hangout with during lunch, but it wasn't the same anymore. They all had gotten closer with each other during the summer and left me excluded bc I had a small group of friends outside of school that I hung out with most of the time outside of school. I felt like an outsider and I started to distance myself from them.

I wasn't the only one left behind though. Out of the group of people i would hang out with during lunch in 10th grade, another person got left behind from the group. Him and I were sort of close to each other. We both liked anime and we volunteered together occasionally on the weekends, he was probably the only person i considered a real friend in that group. But he quickly adjusted and started hanging out with different people during lunch, while I stayed unsure who to hangout with until it was too late.

I've been alone in school since. I'm in my last quarter of junior year and I'm sick of being alone during lunch. Lunch is the part I dread the most during school. Rn I've been trying to get closer to friend I was talking about earlier. I've asked him if he wants to hangout every now then during lunch, but I don't want want act like a needy bitch begging for attention. But for me it sucks being alone during that part of the day. Almost everyone during lunch has their groups that they hangout with while I go to the library by myself and listen to music and I act like I'm busy. I hate it. I would greatly appreciate some advice for the situation I'm in rn. (sorry for making this so flipping long :P)

Things like that hapened. I was thrown into a similar circumstance as well. I guess..... Ultimately you gotta push that outta you're mind and think of the more positive things.

>>1 There are loads of kids like your who are by themselves and are probably thinking the same thing you are. Try approaching them, take a chance :)

Or try joining a club at your school, for example, it's a good way to make friends and get into a group of people.

As for your friend, just keep trying to ask him to hang out, but if he looks like he has no interest, there isn't much you can do. That's how friendships tend to be at that age.

I'm not in 11th grade. but I've been left out before. Find people that like what you like. if you don't know someone. say hi my name is (your real name) and you are. find someone who like you got left out. keep trying with your other friend. maybe try talking to him. I'm no expert because I'm still left out. but good luck hopefully this stuff helps you!

Thanks yall, I appreciate it

Life is shit.
Live with it.

Like what Rora and Dark Rose said, try to find people that share interests with you. Join a club and spend more time around people, if you look confident people will start to gravitate to you. I hope things improve for you soon! Good luck mate.