I always seem to get a reply on the dollars site, which is good, means it can be reliable.
Anyway, I am a 14 year old girl that is in 8th grade-- ya' know, the time with all the drama?
Anyway, so, I have a few friends, and, one that seems particularly interested in me is a boy named Nick. We hang out a lot, and, ide say were good friends, and, sometimes we email each other and stuff like that.
Well, one day I was talking to him on my phone, and, he was like,
"Hey, what age do you think you are gonna have sex? Are you planing on it?"
It was kinda sudden to me, and, to be honest, a lot out of the blue, but I replied with,
"I don't know! But certainly not at the age I am now!"
"Besides, none of your business!"
Then after that he said,
"Well, you know Tylar? The 10th grader?"
"He said he's had sex before at 16, so, yeah."
I was kinda shocked by this, like really! You don't ask a girl these types of questions over phone!
Then I said,
"So what if he has, it has nothing to do with me."
Then he replied with,
"Oh, alright then, I got to go, cya!"
Then he left!
Like, who does that!?
Well, the next day, we talked again, and I really didn't want to talk about the subject, so I didn't bring it back up.
Then, a little later he asked me a different question.
"Can you send me a picture?"
Then I asked,
"What for?"
He replied with,
"Just so I can see if you are still beautiful without your makeup on.
So I did, and added the quip,
"There you happy?"
And he replied with,
"Very."
After some more small talked, he eventually asked if I wanted to go to the play ground.
Before I go on, I should explain how everything in are town is laid out.
See, we have an elementary school in town, and a joint middle school and high school out of town. We go to the MSHS, but sometimes we meet up at the playground at the elementary so we can hang out.
But, kinda weirded out at the time, I said,
"Yeah, but only if Dillan can go." (My other guy friend)
And he replied with,
"Well, then I may not go, because I don't like him."
After that we got into an entire argument and he eventually said,
"Why don't you want to go? What do you think i'm gonna do, rope you? Besides, I don't like you that way.
I was kinda marveled by how stupid his reply was.
"Well by the way your coming off, yeah, I think so! And secondly, you just said that you liked me!"
After that he logged off and we haven't talked since.
So, what should I do?

Let me start off by saying I don't know this person you are having trouble with, so I may not be able to give very good advice.
Honestly, to me this sounds like any other argument/drama of a middle schooler. At your age you should not be worried about dating and such, it's a waste of time. Believe me, I know. It's not worth the time and energy. However, if you are concerned about him "raping" you as you say, you NEED to stay away from him. Saying you are worried about a potential rape is a very serious thing and should not be taken lightly. If you are worried about this, then you need to tell an adult right away.
Other than that, the rest of this situation just sounds like drama that will work itself out eventually. For now, let things with him settle down.
I hope everything turns out alright, best wishes to you!

Yeah, just another teen who thinks with their peen. I wouldn't waste too much time on pursuing a relationship with this person. Obvious motives are obvious. Don't be afraid, just don't lead them on. Send super clear signals or you won't get through.

Thanks XD

There is a lot of pressure to grow up quickly, and some think that that involves sex. Don't be pressured into something you don't want to do, even if it's dating. A relationship based on guilt is no good. But hey, your friend doesn't seem terrible or anything, so this is no reason to stop being friends with him.

Middle school lmao high school relationships aren't worth it im 23 an been dating this girl since Valentines an i just let things take their course.Were 100% compatible from our humor to the bedroom. I just like being around her learning new things seeing different expressions shes the perv trust me you know if There's a connection There all you can think about. i wasn't always a gentleman i was normal Horney teen to i first did this an that at 13. I've loved been betrayed an scared for longest time an i final started love again my advice would be concentrate on study. In high school 96 girl got pregnant out of just 300 students the dads were nowhere to be found to help these girl get around the school. might as well say 96 single moms it was so awkward i took my senior year at home over the computer .