1 Name: Minna:33 : 2016-04-02 13:13 ID:KIxeR4C+ [Del]
Me and my dad have a rocky- more like one sided relationship. My dad, who's not even my biological dad in the first place, and my mom got divorced in 2009. For as long as I can remember, my dad lived in a separate house and I would go see him twice a week. But the thing is, I never, even when him and my mom were married, never considered him as a dad.
But he loves me, very much. Every time he sees me he tells me how much he loves me, and he's been my 'dad' since I was born. But I still never really considered him family. And I really don't know why. And he worries about me a lot.
But he was divorced before he divorced my mom, and he had a son which I considered him a brother. But my mom told me that he was actually my half-brother and he's also now about 29. I don't really talk to him that much.
But I don't know if I should keep on saying 'I love you dad' and come out, or should I just keep up the act? What should I do??
2 Name: NZPIEFACE !NZPIEH7uI6 : 2016-04-02 19:43 ID:DLoyjtV4 [Del]
Wait wait wait wait........He was divorced BEFORE he divorced your mother, had a kid back then, who is your half-brother......DAFUQ?
Getting back on topic, how the fuck do you not see him as your Dad? He's literally been there since you were born.....Oh well, forget it. People have their own family issues.
Try and do what you think is best, and what would hurt both parties emotionally the less.
3 Name: Morning : 2016-04-03 15:55 ID:3sOSMEWs [Del]
Well to put my advice simply.
Wait...
I know it sounds bad (or good, depending) But from what it sounds like, you haven't moved out, so you may not be old enough to make your own independent decision per-say. Because you live with these people you would either have to wait and observe, and come up with a conclusion as to how it would affect the lives of your family (or who you would consider family). OR you could talk to your mom about it (depending on the relationship you have with her) and decide what to do then.
There's that or you could just wait until you move out and then you could visit whoever you want, and tell your "dad". As long as you are ok. As long as you are taken care of. As long as you have a place to be.
Please do consider these options. I hope this helped.
