First off,
>>6 is me, I just accidentally used a different name.
>>7 This might be a really good example of how differently I see things to others, because I really didn't understand or find any relevence in most of what you said.
I think the concept of freedom needs to be brought up here, because having responsibilities is like being tied down to something and limited. And before you get the wrong idea I don't mean to have no responsibilities but just the necessary ones, not just creating new ways to tie yourself down for people who don't mean enough to you for that. Only the closest people who mean the most to you have the right to rely on you, and have you rely on them, that's just the way I see it.
But this factor of "being family" really gets in the way and makes things unnecessarily complicated. If you don't have an interest in someone and no reason to hang out with them then don't see them, I think it should be that simple?
I'm not irresponsible, and I don't consider it "shoving them into a dusty corner" but rather just disconnecting from them. They don't need me and I don't need them, we both live in separate worlds and just happened to live together for a while.
I really don't know what else to say, and I guess that no one will be able to give me advice if they disagree with my view on things. I guess it can't be helped though, I guess we'll just let this thread die then if no one else has anything to say.