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Boyfriend problems (7)

1 Name: Kittie Noir : 2016-03-14 12:22 ID:1JgkuuPg [Del]

So..I started dating this guy I'm friends with and were both super akaward. Today he wasnt sure if we were still dating adn its been 2 weeks or more. How can i stop bring so akaward around him? I want him to hug me and kiss me...but i dont want to pessure him. Before we started dating i acted myself (still akaward) but now weree more than usual....

2 Name: ruAlice : 2016-03-14 12:56 ID:EIUHjrfq [Del]

I think it's best to go slowly and as you already said not to pressure him. Start by holding hands or ask him directly if it's okay for him to hug or cuddle. Don't stress about it, after some time it will be natural for both of you to feel like a real couple and to do stuff like that. Some people just need a lot of time. :) But it's important to be yourself and not to force anything. Good luck!

3 Name: Kittie Noir : 2016-03-14 12:58 ID:1JgkuuPg [Del]

>>2 thanks um...how would we even start holding hands?

4 Name: ruAlice : 2016-03-14 13:17 ID:EIUHjrfq [Del]

>>3 You could try to grab his hand while you are like chilling together or on a date and then see if he responds to it or starts to feel uneasy. I don't know if you are comfortable trying it in public yet, but if not then try it when you are alone. It's totally fine if you hesitate and need time to gather the courage. We all know how hard and scary it is to do the first step. :)

5 Name: Dafree : 2016-03-14 15:21 ID:RTehfHUk [Del]

JUST GO FOR IT. BE AGGRESSIVE!
but not too aggressive.

6 Name: Juji Kabane : 2016-03-14 22:56 ID:FEIeSsZ1 [Del]

Talk to him, be yourself. Kiss him.

7 Name: kamui : 2016-03-15 03:21 ID:aV0HRU7a [Del]

Go for it Tiger