My parents are the typical asian type parents where they are strict at everything. I love my parents but they really piss me off a lot. It maybe my problem, but like they're really messed up.
like in one situation they left me at home alone (im 16) and went on vacation when i cant fucking go out and drive alone cause i have a permit. Left me with $300, they left for 4months. I had to take care of all the medicals insurance bills that they did not told me about. I sort of messed up on the payment, where its not a big deal. And my mother came back piss and started yelling at me and saying im worthless piece of shit. I had finals and ACT testing to worry about and i was super stressful. So i got piss and said something back and she went off on me. these kind of situation happens alot, im really done with it now.

That's simply unfair of them. I'm sorry they expect so much of you. The least they could do is explain these things before forcing them upon you and freaking out after they realize you didn't know what you were doing. I'm proud you handled it as well as you did with little to no instruction.

They expect WAY too much of me. English is my third language, and only started it in six grade. they expect me to be super fluent at it. They expect me get straight A's while im struggling at the language, they were strict about me going out and hang out with friends. They made me a social ackward kid. And now they expect me to super socialize, and Godly. Like one time they ask me to find a way to instantly renew green card, im like HOW THE FUCK DO I DO THAT. and they yelled at me and blah blah blah. I wish they actually notice that im a 16yr old who is struggling in school and not a adult genius.

actually i never hanged out with friends before, i wasnt even allow to join any clubs. and last year they move me away from people who actually accepts me. IM SO GOD DAMN TIRED OF THIS SHIT NOW. My big brother left them just because of this too

Sorry to hear that, Ann. It's definitely unfair to put so much pressure on you (I've sort of had to deal with that at one time too). They probably don't realize that or think they are doing something good for you. Have they ever asked you what makes you happy and not them? Keep your chin up kiddo; school is important, but so is enjoying your life -- start doing things you like and that make you happy, find friends, join clubs, be a bit of a rebel, your parents need to (learn to) chill.

I try but they usually end up badly. I really dont wanna be a loner anymore for the last year of my high school.....the Stress is real

>>6 You'll find friends in time, I'm sure of that :) High school is rough, so just wait till you get to college/university, it's different there (a good different).
Just remember that it's your life, not your parents'. They may be your parents and are raising you, but ultimately it's your choice what to do with your life.
I wish you good luck and I hope you can come to an understanding with your parents <3

whoa.. that's just harsh..

though in my case, i had to explain it to my parents(?) (just dad actually) without being aggressive. though being aggressive can't be helped. I had to Apologize and shit but if its still my fault.. i would stay away from home until we've both chilled.

and if things are still awkward.. just stop talking to avoid it..

yeah~ my advice might not be that helpful but.. oh well. I think you might be able to handle it.. I'll be here to cheer you up if anything..

1) Get pissed.
2) Get sick of their shit
3) Tell them that

Parent's aren't that unreasonable to ignore your complaints

Im trying my best to stay chill, cause if i dont stay chill theyre gonna be madder. acting lik etheyre the victim. and thank you guys for all the advise. i just wanted a place to speak my feelings, since pressure is like high

>>10 And this is the place where you can tell us how you feel and we'll listen, definitely and anytime :)

They are not the victim. I hope your situation gets better and honestly, you are much more responsible than me. I'm turning 16 in a few months and I still feel nervous when I order food plus i can't even use a bus, I still avoid trains even though I now know how to use them.

You are really smart for trying to stay chill because if they get angry, they may not listen to reasonings. Like my father, when he gets angry he'll spout nonsense. A few weeks back he said I'm not his child and he is not my father. From then on we ignored each other but my mother said he doesn't really mean it. Just wait until they are calm then you can try talking to them again. Good luck!

thank you! im still trying to work my best, i know they have hopes on me. But i really cant take it. I really wanna just be alone now D;

and i hope situation is getting better for you Euphoria

My parents are the same but I'm working hard and saving up so I can leave then ,they would probably realise they should've treated like this

Same here.

@yuki thou if i work. i will have to give them the money

It's not cool to get a lot of pressure put on you. It can cause a lot of psycological and emotional stress and may lead to some unhealthy desicions. Just try to find some time to relax.

Hey, doesn't anyone think about actually reaching those demands? Seems a lot easier than working your ass off so you can move out of the house.

working sounds like a very good choice. but there is many problems. Im born in a very traditional asian family. If i work that mean i give the money to the family, and moving out can be a choice, but that means i will have to get out of college and work for family, like full time work