1 Name: Reverie : 2016-03-09 07:07 ID:cXXuo/mU [Del]
So...my dad left us for a VERY SHALLOW reason. I asked him why he did that but he didn't reply. I asked him to come back but he didn't reply yet again. He might not even read my messages and e-mails. So I thought "Ah, I guess he's not coming back. Maybe he doesn't care anymore." Or so I thought. My sister asked and talked to him. He replied to her, but not to me. It felt so unfair. I e-mailed him 2 days before my sister did. But I never got a response. Not even once.
So, it got me thinking. What if he comes back? Should I accept him? Should I EVEN pay attention to him if he comes back? I don't know what to do.
Any advice is welcome. It's hard rocking your head so much when your inner self shouts obvious things.
2 Name: Neko !UU8hnqLjMY : 2016-03-09 07:10 ID:0f3ModEF [Del]
How about, take a nap and forget him til he actually comes back? Decide what to do then.
3 Name: Reverie : 2016-03-09 07:17 ID:cXXuo/mU [Del]
Wah. I really don't know. I mean I can't sleep nor eat because it bothers me so much. As far as I am informed, the only one who loves me in my family is (was) my dad.
4 Name: Kokkuri-san : 2016-03-09 14:22 ID:hXb2UEiy [Del]
If I were to be you again, I know I'd want to ignore him and think he's just the shits. But you grow as a human being when you accept those who keep pushing you away. And who knows, because of your patient reaction to his ignorance, maybe he'll turn around and you'll be rewarded for it.
5 Name: Akari : 2016-03-10 07:33 ID:swJCTPRI [Del]
I've gotta say, I've been through something like this before. If your dad ignores you then forgive him, but don't talk to him. Don't try to get in contact and don't make any contact with him at all. I mean, you can talk to him but, not so...you know, mushy. This is just what I think might help, you don't actually have to do it if you don't want to.
