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How to get a shy girl to like me back (19)

1 Name: Kodiak !KlA7duktlc : 2016-02-27 04:51 ID:M9+tWTwQ [Del]

So there's this reserved girl that I really like but we don't have any classes together and she doesn't seem to be interested in anyone. Although we do talk occasionally on the way to the buses, I can't do anything but seem awkward just like Mikado I guess.

2 Name: Mito : 2016-02-27 05:12 ID:eDQ70jBj [Del]

Take the initiative. We are Guys, we should lead...but don't get carried away too much. Step by Step :)

3 Name: Rora-chan !IHa.eGTGzA : 2016-02-27 10:34 ID:Hh4SmdFZ [Del]

Haha as a girl, I would be waiting on you to make the move, like Mito said c: What are her interests and stuff? You can try asking her that, maybe there's a topic of conversation you can strike with her. Or if you read something interesting, share it with her... yeah, step by step. She probably needs some time to gradually open up to you :)

4 Name: cooldud3 : 2016-02-27 21:47 ID:WpVeBG9O [Del]

Best thing to do is just be gentle and caring and see what her interests are, then try to hang out sometime and take an interest in what she enjoys.

5 Name: Kodiak !KlA7duktlc : 2016-02-28 02:24 ID:Un7tEwJF [Del]

Well, she's from Korea and doesn't speak English all that well so there's a bit of a communication barrier and she likes art but the thing is I don't have much knowledge or interest of it.

6 Name: NZPIEFACE : 2016-02-28 03:00 ID:2v//IKWD [Del]

>>5 So you guys have nothing in common?

GLHF

7 Name: Holo the Wise Wolf : 2016-02-28 09:45 ID:6UIj/XlU [Del]

So basically, you don't actually like her at all? What do you even know about her? You can't like a person you don't even know. There are plenty of other quiet girls in the world who can fulfill your sexual frustration and fetishes.

It's just your hormones acting up. Give it up and let those useless desires fade away.

8 Name: Rora-chan !IHa.eGTGzA : 2016-02-28 13:17 ID:Hh4SmdFZ [Del]

>>5 Get to know her first. You can't just like a person without knowing them. For all you know, she's nothing like you think she is.
Part of any relationship if accepting you won't always have the same interests. But if you don't have anything in common at all, well I don't know how you will manage to go beyond being classmates. It takes time to get to know someone. Ask her out to a coffee shop perhaps? Does she like that sort of stuff? Ya gotta get to know her interests, even if you have no interest in what she likes. Then you'll see if she's really the right person for ya.
Good luck dude, you just gotta take it step by step.

9 Name: Sloba : 2016-02-29 03:26 ID:c/CnMIaT [Del]

You need to be patient.Try to talk with her everyday and do it about a weak .Then wait a little if she came to talk to you can say she care about you that's the first step :P

10 Name: NZPIEFACE : 2016-02-29 03:40 ID:vHEfMQc7 [Del]

This thread turned from "How to get a shy girl to like me back" to "How do I get to like a shy girl"

11 Name: Enigami : 2016-02-29 07:54 ID:1YdhW3bo [Del]

>>10 It really has, though. -_-

12 Name: Rora-chan !IHa.eGTGzA : 2016-03-01 01:25 ID:Hh4SmdFZ [Del]

>>10 Haha, it kinda has, hasn't it?

13 Name: Rouarra : 2016-03-01 03:30 ID:MiU9yskb [Del]

Just be honest, positive, respectful, and as gentlemanly as possible and above all else confident, tell her u love her with a confession no letters be brave and muster all your courage, prepare yourself for her answer and just be "yourself".

14 Name: Akiabo : 2016-03-01 10:56 ID:/toN4ktH [Del]

>>13 Agreed if she reject you then you weren't meant to be. Try asking her out to a movie just as friends and take it slow. And maybe after a week of going out ask her but don't blow it out of the water just keep it casual and don't be scared, if your fully honest then you have nothing to worry about. Good luck, :)

15 Name: Yuki : 2016-03-03 09:11 ID:TfgmmR9r [Del]

if shes quiet, you have to be gentle, but dont talk to her like shes a fragile flower. you have to be respectful, and confident, but not cocky.

16 Name: Tanaka The Moon Flame !k3JBVU3XfE : 2016-03-03 13:07 ID:BAp+YC18 [Del]

SIDDOWN BOI YOU ABOUT TO GET ADVICE FROM SOMEONE WHO LOVES FOR A LIVING.
Firstly, obviously, ask her about her interests. Then, expand upon and talk about any that you have in common. Next, take the time to gain a cursory knowlege of any interests she has that you do not share, it may be boring but it will pay off. In your case I would reccomend asking her what her favorite artist is, if she does any art, and in the case that she does ask to see it. Pro tip, no matter what the art looks like it is amazing. And finally, exhibit an interest in her (tell her she's pretty and whatnot) and attempt to break some barrier in between the two of you. I.E. Ask her to teach you korean, or offer to give her english tutoring. Then ask her out. If you need advice for the date I can provide that as well.

17 Name: janna : 2016-03-03 14:44 ID:amSjpSfR [Del]

Lol, you can't get her to do anything unless she actually likes you. Just talk to her, and make moves, but don't overpower her with your feelings just because she's quiet/shy. The worst thing ever is guys who don't know how to take a hint, or who try to force you to like them - so the best thing to do is to just have her best interest at heart while you're trying to get to know her better.

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19 Name: Kodiak !lMVGhKRVG6 : 2016-05-19 08:09 ID:lrlOxbCz [Del]

>>16

Thanks for the advice and everyone else's :)
I have actually made some progress lol although it turned out to be revising with her for exams we both had.

P.S Tripwire probably will be different as I forgot the pw I used back then