My mom offered me to go abroad already. She's at Qatar and she wants me to be with her and work with her there. I'm fine with that. I have plans on working there. My problem is my fiancé. He doesn't want me to leave right away. He is afraid I might leave him but I have zero percent intention to cheat on him. I assured him I'm going abroad to be with my mom and to work for our future but he insists of being a breadwinner. I don't want that. I also want to be a woman who is not staring at her laptop 24/7 doing nothing. I want to be a breadwinner too. I want us to be a breadwinner and I want to travel that's why I want to go abroad. But my fiancé is persistent. He wants me to leave next year but I'm worried that my mother might retire already that's why she's pushing me to travel there right now.

I love my fiancé so much but it's so hard to argue with him when it comes to being long distance so, how do we settle it? Arguing with him is so hard to deal with and assuring him that I won't cheat is difficult for him cause he perceives me as a flirt. I admit I was a flirt but I'm devoted to him. How do I talk him through agreeing with me to be with my mom?

This may sound dumb, but how about the both of you travel together to your moms?