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I WANT TO CHANGE! (13)

1 Name: CreeperComando : 2016-02-25 19:31 ID:sQqwE77h [Del]

So... this is my issue; I want to be a woman but, I have no way of obtaining money or hormones to do such a thing. What do I do? Do you guys have any suggestions?

2 Name: Neko !UU8hnqLjMY : 2016-02-25 20:07 ID:veCcMGp7 [Del]

Yes. Give it up.
The cat says a woman is decided based on the inside. No point turning your life outside down just to 'appear' as female. Leave that to the dumb shit Americans.
Ofc, you're gonna feel constricted and have trouble finding a spouse, but that's unfortunately the crap people have to put up with.

3 Name: Robo !5lMucx4OC2 : 2016-02-25 20:14 ID:zjZQfo5L [Del]

OR get a job, dress how you want and stop giving any fucks on what people think. Although the facade of looking like a man can be beneficial in gaining the job, from there you can get the money. Then do what you want.

4 Name: Setsuna : 2016-02-25 20:19 ID:AgiDswN4 [Del]

I think you should tell someone you know and trust and perhaps ask them for help? In the meanwhile, try to make yourself feel more comfortable in your looks. Try appearing more feminine in any way that you can. Start growing out your hair is a good start, unless you already have long hair, you could also buy new clothes whenever you can. You could paint your nails, or even do something as simple as taking forever to get ready in the morning, or taking a long, relaxing bath.

5 Name: Rora-chan !IHa.eGTGzA : 2016-02-25 20:52 ID:Hh4SmdFZ [Del]

What Neko and Robo said. My personal opinion is be happy the way you were born, you're perfectly fine that way TBH.

I don't know how old you are, but give it some very serious deep thought. Hormone therapy isn't the kind of stuff you can just easily reverse if you go through with it, from what I've heard. Think about it carefully.

6 Name: Emo Bee : 2016-02-25 20:57 ID:7qaL3KxH [Del]

Statistically hormonal therapy actually does harm in some studies. Suicidal thoughts and depression actually increases post surgery or hormones.

AS for what robo said, they are patently wrong. There is no proof at all of any hiring disparity in any first world country (assuming we're talking about them) outside of specific jobs such as porn star.

7 Name: Emo Bee : 2016-02-25 21:00 ID:7qaL3KxH [Del]

You may have a gender dysphoria. It's comparable to anorexia where the individual feels a great discomfort in their own body for perceived reasons. I advise seeing a therapist.

8 Name: Robo !5lMucx4OC2 : 2016-02-25 21:25 ID:zjZQfo5L [Del]

>>6 Your funny. That shit still happens and I see it when I go to work. And I especially see it when my female co-worker gets slut shamed constantly unlike the male co-workers who dont get any insults. So stop and think before trying to give someone facts about shit thats been happening for quite some time.

9 Name: Eva : 2016-02-26 08:16 ID:yJiG6XCx [Del]

I would start looking into testosterone reducing foods. Eating more foods like dried fruits and soy products would be a good first step.

10 Name: Rando : 2016-02-26 11:03 ID:0ChUyC2D [Del]

>>8 To put in some evidence beyond your anecdotal experiences, here's a Cornell study showing some significant gender bias in tenure-track STEM positions. Unfortunately, I don't think moving beyond your anecdotal experience will be conducive toward maintaining your position.

http://www.pnas.org/content/112/17/5360

11 Name: KuroNegati : 2016-02-26 20:15 ID:0kYT31yc [Del]

>>8 I work at a Taco Bell and all of my managers and supervisors are women, as high as the district manager and the regional corporate representative.

12 Name: Marx : 2016-02-28 09:59 ID:BrfT7Nu8 [Del]

Just dress how you want to dress! Do what makes 'you' feel comfortable! And you dont need any hormones to be a woman, if you feel "womanly" already, then you are! Just know that you are valid, you are a beautiful person whos opinions matter!
And if you need any help, you can get some from friends!
If you need anything, just email me, hun!
marx.dollars@gmail.com

13 Name: Sharo : 2016-02-29 00:13 ID:7S8cpb2l [Del]

As far as im concernd, your a chick. You have a right to be what ever you want and sexualy atracted to what ever you want. Any one who tells you other wise is a dick, or pussy, you get the piont