Well this isn' as bad as most here, but lately since i started highschool, i have felt like I had to fake my way in to the groups. It has been like five weeks and i still feel very uncomfortable in a girls school. I feel more relaxed and happy with my old friends who are at different schools. Most of them are boys and I cant get weird with my new group like most people would with good friends. I have a camp coming up and im like one of those friends who is in the bottom of the conderating list and I have always been, but before I was fine with that. I have taken steps to talk to people but they just either forget me later or remain very distant friends. This really annoys me. What should I do, im not at the sucidal point ,but it pisses me off on the inside. HALP PLZ

You'll be fine. I've always felt with relationships, the best you can do is just put yourself out there. Searching too hard can build unhealthy bonds. Just be patient. I know that's not easy. But if you stay open and approachable, then it's just a matter of time.

Just be yourself. As cliché as it sounds, it's a good way to get out there.

Don't fake it. It's not gonna turn out pretty for anyone. Be yourself and you'll find the right group to hang out with. Maybe it'll take a while to find the right friends, but rushing and desperately searching for friends is not healthy. The right time will come. Just do what you like, participate in activities that interest you, and there will be someone who shares your interests and who you can get along with. Keep your chin up :)

Try to find at least one person with the same interests as you who you can be natural around.

>>4>>3 i agree completly you should always be yourself...there a motto i live by when making friends "find people that will celebrate you, not tolerate you"

>>6 Exactly, I love that phrase :)

I under stand I felt the same way until I found one person who was not fake. Try to find the loudest most idiotic group and sit with them it worked for me it will work for you