So, within the last year or so I've come to really like cross-dressing as a girl. I'm not homosexual and I still identify as male, but I just find it fun to cross-dress because it's a totally different and new experience for me since I've grown up in a very religious family. The only problem is that because my family is very religious, I can't ever cross-dress out of fear that they'll find out and what they might do if they find out. To complicate matters further, I'm still religious myself and I'd like to continue holding to my religious beliefs.
In short, I'm really confused and I don't know what to do about my situation. The only solution I can come up with is waiting until I move out of my parent's house and into my own place before cross-dressing again. Any and all advice would be appreciated.
I see... Since i to am religous, here's my 10¥. Either pry around and see who in your family is okay with homosexuality, and how much they are okay with, these will ge the people you can trust. Jesus doesn't care about what you do, just who you are. Try some other anonymous help sites, since we arent very useful.
Sooner or later, they'll find out, and from there, only you can decide what to do
>>2 Unfortunately, I know for a fact that no one in my family would be okay with it. They're all firm believers that anything remotely homosexual is bad enough to get you sent to hell.
In any case, thanks for your input, I really do appreciate it.
Jesus is a God of mercy and forgiveness. Your thoughts/desires alone can't condemn you and your actions can be forgiven. Don't think you're doomed for eternity because you enjoyed something. Also, try seeing a Pentecostal Apostolic church (UPCI-affiliated specifically). They're good at helping people in your situation. As for your family, well... there's not much that can be done about that.
>>6 Thanks for your advice. I'll try talking to someone about it. And you're right, Jesus is merciful and I really need to keep that in mind more often.
8 Name: Kello : 2016-02-12 00:55 ID:JWfBw4XM [Del]
Honestly, I personally don't know what I think about Cross-Dressing. But you said you're not homosexual (not saying that i'm against that.). Since when was cross-dressing attributed to being a homosexual? I believe it's a choice of dress. A choice of image. Is piercings wrong? Tattoos? I believe that what you wear is how you express yourself. I don't know you're religious domination, I believe that it's not human's that have the right to condemn someone to hell. I know it can be tricky to share something with your family, but if they can't accept you for who you are and love you despite the things they disagree with, then WHAT IS LOVE? WHAT IS FAMILY? And also, what REALLY matters is faith. Make you're faith your own. I'm not saying that your family's faith is wrong, but I do believe that accepting what others say is right or wrong without actually questioning it and finding it out for oneself isn't faith--it's blind trust.
Anyways, I could go on and on... I hope this kind of helps?
