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Help me please.... (10)

1 Name: The Black Mage Lulu : 2016-02-08 08:08 ID:Dqo3KSh0 [Del]

I'm a gay 15 year old male. My boyfriend is 17 years old. We have been best friends for 9 years. We have been being bullied lately... Last night I found out that he tried to kill himself. I'm broken. I don't know what to do. How do I help him...?

2 Name: FindMuck !MrEff/SKhc : 2016-02-08 08:53 ID:XHKHx5zU [Del]

There's a massive community built around preventing this kind of thing. I'm sure you can find some help with a little research.

3 Name: TNT : 2016-02-08 13:32 ID:O1sl1mFp [Del]

support you show that is worth a lot , that you really want him , defend him from whatever is causing bad

4 Name: Dafree : 2016-02-08 16:19 ID:RTehfHUk [Del]

I would beat the fuck out of the person who bullied you guys, but as many people would say violence isnt the answer fuck,that do what you want to do.

5 Name: Aliko : 2016-02-08 17:17 ID:VVQLgCWi [Del]

I have a few friends who have gone through those stages and the best thing to do is stick by their side. Hug them, let them cry it out. Tell them "it's ok, I'm here. We'll get through this. Just hold on"
If you show that they have something to hold on to, then they WILL hold on to it. Give then hope that not everything is bad. Once they see their "hope" in sadness, they will believe it's their fault. Don't let them think that. Give them the sight they want to, the hope they want to believe in. That determination will let them hold on.
The both of you will hold on, not for yourselves...But for your significant other.
I hope the 2 of you will find happiness and I hope my advice helped. I wish you all the best.
Don't worry, there will always be a day when everything will be all over and you guys will be at peace without the bullying.

6 Name: Aliko : 2016-02-08 17:19 ID:VVQLgCWi [Del]

Just know that the 2 of you WILL get through this and once it all blows over. You 2 might be closer together than you guys will ever be!

7 Name: NZPIEFACE : 2016-02-08 23:16 ID:wfnNMvUh [Del]

>>4 The true answer

8 Name: Neko !UU8hnqLjMY : 2016-02-08 23:40 ID:veCcMGp7 [Del]

>>2
Depending on ehich country it is, those communities are useless, if they even exist.

9 Name: Calazies : 2016-02-13 20:49 ID:03Ers7Ix [Del]

It's best to stick with your friend as long as you can and discuss how you're feeling. It's also helpful to know what his plans are for that day. I personally feel better when I'm with my friends when I get depressed. Also try do something to get his mind off of it. I would also tell a parent, a teacher or an adult you can trust to try to stop the bullying. Neither you or your friend deserves it. If you can stop the bullying it will help your situation.
If you need some more search: The White Hatter
On Facebook. His name is Darren Laur. He has handled cases like this. He accepts all genders and sexual orientations. He may not live near you, but that doesn't matter. Message him as soon as you can.
I hope my advice helps you and you can reach help as soon as you can.

10 Name: Someone!1z8qrtCRGc : 2016-02-13 22:17 ID:NW4OZR75 [Del]

Before I go on, I would like to point out that what I am about to type will not be able to resolve your problem in the long-run, given the (reasonably) little information provided.

It is a given that your boyfriend is in a very vulnerable state at the moment. Given his temperament, he might feel even more desperate about the situation or lash out at people close to him, including you. Do whatever is reasonably within your means to comfort him and reduce his chances of making another attempt.

Do speak with him and stay by his side as much as you can. If there is anyone else he is comfortable, ask the person to talk to them too. Given the severity of the bullying and how authority figures around you have reacted, consider asking him (and yourself) whether you guys would want some actions to be taken. I can't guarantee that the means will be immediately available to you two, but I will say that both of you are not alone. Please do not lose hope.