>>2Thank you, Kokkuri. Your words were really helpful. You understood the situation like I thought no one would.
You're right in so many ways. Thank God people doesn't compare hin to me. My mom used to say used to say things like "your cousin is so clever and strong, he ate all his veggies, take the example" until the day she found out thar his grades are not really good, his friends barely know me and only talk to me asking if he's fine. Once a girl told me I should be as gorgeous as him, but I don't get upset with those things coming from people who don't know me.
My friends are the same with me. They always ask me advice and my own opinion about a lot of things. One in particular told me I was an example he wanted to follow! My friends have their negative sides but I like them and they seem to like me a lot more than I expect sometimes. I guess that's just relative, my cousin might have an example he wants to follow who he considers 'superior' to him. His mom compares him to me becauss she thinks I'm super inteligent and quiet while he is one od those pranksters who always get in trouble. His friends buzz around him the whole day, I wish I could talk more to him, but one of his friends doesn't like me, he must think I'm a loser.
I guess I should stop comparing myself to him. I have friends who like me and I like them, they probably give all attention to my cousin because he's like one of those cool classmates who talk to you once a month. I should stop considering that as a problem, that is kinda egocentric. Instead, I will take my cousin as the person who has his own pros and cons while I keep my job trying to be the best person I can.
Thank you again for the help and encouragement, things seem to be clearer now.