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My life hates me (13)

1 Name: Chariot : 2016-01-20 02:00 ID:yAdnbl8l [Del]

At my school, people tend to be very sociable and serious at the same time. And I have made friends in another class but the problem is that making friends in MY class seems to be harder than I expected. They don't like me AT ALL.
For example when my teacher was picking names on who is to be our partners for our report,they were laughing and screaming that our teacher didn't pick them to be partners with me and my current partner is obviously not very happy with the results.
They don't really have high hopes for me and neither does my parents even though I try my hardest neither them nor my classmates have ANY hopes for me.And this is why I think that if my parents don't have any sense of motivation for me why would my teachers and classmates care?
I feel like trash that got thrown out at the wrong side of the bin.

2 Name: Naomi : 2016-01-20 02:09 ID:GGPnxuGQ [Del]

It only seems like a down moment in your life. I had to go through this is primary school so I was pretty depressed. Do you know any reason as to why they don't like you? Because if it's grades that shouldn't matter. No one is trash either, I believe you could do this, get through it and become whatever you want.

3 Name: NZPIEFACE : 2016-01-20 02:22 ID:/TRJDgzP [Del]

Um, ever think about why? My class hates me, pretty sure it's because I'm an asshole most of the time. I know it so I don't care. So once you find out why the hate you, either fix it or live with it.

4 Name: Neko !UU8hnqLjMY : 2016-01-20 02:32 ID:JNL3qJ+Q [Del]

Stop trying, maybe?
Trying sometimes backfires.

5 Name: Chariot : 2016-01-20 02:40 ID:yAdnbl8l [Del]

I'm kind of trying to live with it no matter how hard I try but if I make things better they'll probably hate me even more even though I'm nice to them. And they get angry when I talk to them about why the actually hate me T_T

6 Name: Abziiee : 2016-01-20 03:49 ID:bChrcDrt [Del]

You shouldn't let that take you down. Since you have friends from other classes, I don't see why your class doesn't want to be friends with you. Be happy with your current friends! It's not your problem that your class can't make friends with you, it's probably their false judgements and immaturity.

Sometimes when you stop caring and start doing what you want and love, people will be drawn to you without you even trying much. So do what you love and don't consider other people's judgements about you. ( ´ ▽ ` )ノ

As for me, I would like to talk to you if you would like too (=´∀`)人(´∀`=)

Abziiee.dollars@gmail.com

7 Name: Chariot : 2016-01-20 05:08 ID:yAdnbl8l [Del]

I'll be glad to make a new friend :)

8 Name: Valdr : 2016-01-20 09:49 ID:yZR2yugY [Del]

>>7 Do really really well on all of your assignments. Then everyone will love you and want to be your partner so they can get good grades too. Then, observe and watch everybody in the class, and the people who seem to treat you or others with respect and kindness, try and befriend them. I'm sure that there are kind people in your class, and I'm sure that you can do it. You'll be fine.

9 Name: Slip : 2016-01-20 09:52 ID:lHF7einD [Del]

WE are your freinds!
so why should you care what they think if they dont want to be freinds with you well than there loss! belive me im going though the exsact same thing and as for your parents and teachers well... PROVE THEM WRONG! you can do anything if you only try! but that dosent mean its going to be easy. anyway... email me k?! slip.dollars@gmail.com

10 Name: Valdr : 2016-01-20 10:04 ID:yZR2yugY [Del]

>>9 Great advice.

11 Name: Kisuke : 2016-01-20 14:15 ID:kU1/RBc7 [Del]

Just focus on everything you need to, without needing the approval of others and soon enough when you have enough trust and faith in yourself and you'll be able to do something incredible. Like >>9 said, prove em wrong.

12 Name: Chariot : 2016-01-21 02:43 ID:yAdnbl8l [Del]

Thanks for the advice everyone! I really appreciated it!

13 Name: TheBackOfTheRoomKId : 2016-01-21 06:46 ID:FdNJuVGz [Del]

Hey, so i often struggle with the same problem. sometimes its better not to have friends in my class because its often easier to focus on work and what not, and the partners thing happens to me ALL THE TIME! just be willing to work with anyone and stay quiet and do your own thing it'll get a lot easier really fast. i hope it works out for you!


- Eric