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1 Name: Wing : 2016-01-17 12:15 ID:1X60Km7+ [Del]

So umm... What would you do if the person you like, likes you back.? You both talked it out and say that you both have the same feelings for each other. What would you do from there.? Lately, I've been very passive and I want to do something about it. I don't want the other to do all the work too. We haven't started dating yet because we want to take things slow. So... What would you do after knowing you both like each other.? I'm pretty much of a noob at this relationship-wise situations, so please be nice to me. Thanks!

2 Name: Tree !p4.oUl2qF2 : 2016-01-17 15:22 ID:wIeDP2yA [Del]

Never been in a relationship either,but i'm only 20yrs old, so no biggie. I say take it slow and get to know eachother as you do with your friends. Learn what they like and what they don't like.see how they are in a group setting. Question yourself saying "is this the right person for me?" "is this person responsible?" "how do they treat my family, with respect?" Get to know who this person is so you can learn more about how life with this person would really be like if you two were to get in a lifelong relationship.

3 Name: Lurker !TPWlrPZQIg : 2016-01-17 15:34 ID:ZlTQ0qkS [Del]

If everything is mutual, then just go for it.

Start small, youngling. Ask them to hang out with you. Choose anything. The park, the mall, anywhere that you two can be together.

Easy mode: movie theater.

4 Name: Holo the Wise Wolf : 2016-01-17 16:32 ID:F0mlC8oj [Del]

Don't start dating her - don't date her at all, in fact. Don't go out together and do fun things with eachother. Don't get to know her more. Just fuck.

5 Name: Lurker !TPWlrPZQIg : 2016-01-17 16:58 ID:ZlTQ0qkS [Del]

Ohoho~ corruptible youth.

6 Name: Wing : 2016-01-18 00:11 ID:1X60Km7+ [Del]

>>4 Lmfao. Okay.

>>2 Thanks for advice. Just today they asked if I was willing to wait for them due to personal reasons. That can give me the time to know them better and see what I can do in the future. I'm actually relieved that they said that too. I freaked out not knowing what to do because it was happening so fast.

>>3 I would like that but due to seasons and transportation, we can't really do much together. By hang, as in just us.? The only times we can hang together is after school. We're only sixteen and we don't have our licenses yet. And our friends are always with us when we hang together. We don't really want any of them to know about us yet because we don't know how far we're really going to get. Same goes to family. But I know that a formal dance is coming soon so I plan to ask them to go with me when that comes.

7 Name: Lurker !TPWlrPZQIg : 2016-01-18 00:34 ID:Y0ktFTYC [Del]

>>6
Yes, the formal dance is a great idea. There's no reason to rush anything. You have plenty of time.

8 Name: Oriana : 2016-01-18 18:08 ID:lO6bi2bR [Del]

I really like the idea of taking them to the formal dance and maybe one after school you two can hang out just you two just tell your friends that you made plans so you and your person can have time to get to know each other better ^^

9 Name: Wing : 2016-01-18 20:55 ID:1X60Km7+ [Del]

>>8 That's a good idea. I'll try that and hope that our friends don't notice anything between us. Maybe that can help me be more confident around them too physically. Whenever I see them, I tend to not say or do anything much. That's where the passive me kicks in. Haha.