>>3 I meant to spell it this way, I know how to spell petrified, but thank you for the concern.
>>6 Thank you very much for the advice, I'll talk it over with the others in our friend group. :)
>>2 Personally, I'm not really sure if I value her as a friend because to me....honestly she doesn't really feel like a friend. She doesn't try to be a friend. Before I met my best friends, I had no real friends. I had people I talked to who considered themselves my friends but never really tried to be friends with me, it was always me reaching out to them and to me that's not what friendship is in my opinion. And I guess that's why I personally have such a problem with our 'friend'. Because friendship is a two way thing and she isn't trying on her part.