1 Name: Cha : 2015-12-27 02:12 ID:vDRkd5ny [Del]
Hello there! Umm… So, I kinda have a minor problem with a senior of mine, I like to get it of my chest, I’ll really appreciate any suggestions too!
I’m not quite sure how to start, but I’ll try listing out the first few issues on the top of my head!
First, she has an obsessive and stalker-y crush on another senior.
I try not to get involved with their relationship and stuff, but it’s difficult with she’s always talking to me about it, but he’s complaining to me about it. And I’m not even sure if he reciprocate her feelings, he often mention about how tired he is of her tantrums, cry for attention, and her flirting with other people. But he’s still with her (not in a relationship), but still.
There this one point I must mention, whenever he talks to another girl, she’ll immediately throw a fit and calls the other girl is a slut, and is trying to snatch her crush away. Even though it’s normal talking. But it’s fine when she does it, she hugs and flirts with other guys, and it’s ‘we are just friends’.
Second, she gets SUPER passive-aggressive when it comes to her crush.
For example yesterday, while we were playing league, I did fairly well, and her crush praised me for carrying the entire game, and my senior who was playing Sona previously, turned sour, and started sighing at everything. For the next match, I decided to go as support, as Sona, as I wanted to test out the masteries for her. Which turned out to be a bad idea.
‘Cha? Did you pick her on purpose? To annoy me?’
Sona was her favourite champion, I shouldn’t have picked her, but could my senior not think that everything I do is against her?
The match was horrible, she went as Jinx, even though she can’t play her, but because her crush likes Jinx. She didn’t farm properly, she walked into brushes I specifically told her not to go into, she runs away from fights, but doesn’t run away when everyone tells her to run away, and generally fed the entire enemy team, and our entire team gave up.
On the next match, even though she knew I was there (we were in call, she even asked if I was there), she picked Sona, and gave an exaggerated sigh, ‘I thought I could play her, but then someone’s still here,’ then she switched to other character.
I felt hurt, due to our losing streak, I was only felt confident enough to play support, but due to what she said, I locked in as Sona. Yup, my bad.
I’m pretty sure that when she only uses heal after I died was on purpose though.
Without saying, we lost the next few matches.
Third, she really double-faced.
That pretty much explains it all, she acts really nice to people, then talk behind their backs, calls them names, and more. I know everyone does this, but it still isn’t very nice. She would be in call with me, and telling me about how bad her friend which we’re playing with is, about his personality, his cursing, but in this game chat, she’s whining, and begging, I repeat, BEGGING, him to buy her a skin.
I really don’t know how to react to that.
Fouth, she is really bad at games, but she doesn’t want to improve at all, even if we try to teach and help her.
In another game, where she’s playing as a paladin, her crush is the assassin, and I’m the dps, she doesn’t tank, even though she’s a tanker, even though she can heal herself up easily, even though she has a skill that can reflect all attacks, even though we worked together to get her her item set, noooo, she runs away. And leaves us to die.
Even her crush’s words doesn’t work, and even if she can’t tank properly, she can’t even stop running around and attracting all the monsters, and then starts shrieking. You have no idea how much time that we have wasted.
Or even in league, she only knows how to play Sona, and doesn’t bother to learn anything else other than Jinx, she doesn’t know a thing about buying different items to counter different enemies. Her Jinx runs away from team fights and misses her skills shots most of the time, and her Sona always abandon her adc to go to her crush’s side, and like her adc, runs away from team fights as well.
We always try to teach her, telling her to buy certain items against certain champions, not to run away, but it doesn’t work, and she’ll always blame other people for her losses.
Sometimes, I really thinks she hates me, and is tolerating my presence because her crush. I’m not too sure, she throws a fit when she finds out her crush invited me out for lunch, or when we are playing together. But she keeps telling me that she considers me a close friend. It’s just too confusing for me, and at times, she’ll rub salt into the wound, when she asks if I’m free, then sound shocked when I say I’m currently with or playing with someone, going, ‘Huh you aren’t alone? lol’.
I’m not sure what I think of her as well, I don’t want her to get too close to me, and I strongly dislike playing with her, I like playing for fun, not for people whining and blaming others. I’m really sorry if it’s really negative, and that it’s really messy and rough, it feels nice to get it off my mind though.
Thank you for reading this! Have a nice day! I’m so sorry again!
