I have an issue guys... I need some help figuring this one out.

My girlfriend recently has been shedding light on possibly all of my short-comings. We almost broke up a month ago because I am currently in school, working three jobs, and taking parkour. I was very honest with her about how I feel about our relationship, and that it is not that I didn't want to be with her, it was that I couldn't be in a relationship at this current time in my life (this was something I told her before we started dating seven months ago, she changed my mind at the time, but things are really picking up on my end).

We decided to stay together, but now not only do I feel trapped in relationship that I do not want to be in. But I also feel like I am constantly reminded of all the things I don't do anymore. I am constantly telling her why I cannot do these things right now, and she continues to tell me how shitty of a boyfriend I am, even though she is not blatently telling me I am a shitty boyfriend.

I'm an intern at a fast paced finance firm, I work for my dad's restaurant at night, and I tutor in between shifts. I also am a student who is not only working on the course curriculum, but I am also working on my own side project. That is just a synopsis on how insane my schedule is.


She thinks I need to give her more time and more effort. But honestly I am so burnt out tired from having an extra piece of my life to worry about (she has anxiety disorder and needs constant care and attention, abandonment issues, etc.). She thinks my current living situation is shitty, it is, but there is nothing I can do about it as all of my money goes into helping my dad keep our house.

Like I know what I should do, but I don't know if I have the strength to do it. I love her so much and I don't want to be without her because we are really great together. But I can't be with anyone right now, let alone someone who can't comprehend that my busy schedule is the exact thing I need in life right now.

I need you guys' advice.

If you really think you can't do a relationship right now, then break it off. It's only ever gonna hurt you and her the more you think about it. And besides, what's that thing people say all the time to make them feel better, "If you love something let it go, if it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't it never was"? Pfft, man that thing is cheap, but hey you seem like a good guy. Sure this thing will do the trick.

Thanks buddy lol

I feel like it all depends on how much you care about her. If you care about her it would be nice to sit down and tell her about how hard your work is now. Maybe she doesn't understand the responsibility you have. Now if you do not care about her, just cut it out. There is no use in having bad people in your life.

Riajuu Bakuhatsu-shiro!

Sorry, can't think of anything