Hello, I'm going to get strait to the point and say, I've been debating if I should commit suicide. I'm 24 and I was out on a business trip and they let me go back home early, so I was going to surprise my fiance with a new diamond necklace, but when I got home I was shocked to see a car I've never seen before in my driveway. So I grabbed the Tire-knocker from my car and went inside to see my best friend having sex with my fiance on the dining room table. So I ran out and called up my buddy from collage and he let me stay at his place. That's where I'm at now . I don't know what to do, and I just have a cocktail of emotions in me and I want it all to end. Please Help Me...

Une de perdue, dix de retrouvée.

Don't worry, you'll find another fiance.

>>1 Commiting suicide because of your Fiance? Well....I think that's not a good idea.Unrequited/one sided love is very hard to accept.If you end your life because of this woman(your fiance),will she love you again?I guess it's not.Nothing will change in her mindset and still becomes unfaithful.Look.You are only 24,live your life with importance because it is given only once.They say that time heals everything.WE ARE STRONGER THAN OUR PROBLEMS,RIGHT? You can do it!

Please don't commit suicide! Your fiance didn't deserve you. Your friend was a piece of shit, mind my language, but you have to face them. Take some time off and recollect yourself and if you have a strong urge to kill yourself, call the hospital because they're people who care for you and would never want you to die. Please live!

why do you even need to debate something like suicide?
do it if you want, don't do it if you don't.

whatever you do, don't call a hospital. worst case scenario they'll lock you up and pump you full of drugs.

>>6 Did you experience it before? Or is that just stereotypical outlook on hospitals?

>>1 Sorry, dude but we can't stop you. We can only give advice. But these people didn't experience your life, so we're not really helpful. But do you think suicide is always the answer? If so, it can't be helped. That is your decision not ours.

I just wish I live in the same area as you. So I can convince you to stop. Even it means beating you up to unconciousness, tying you up in a chair, and locking you in the basement until your head is clear.

Beat up your fiancé. Show that bitch your pain. Also, beat up your that friend 'friend' of yours. Did they notice you? Either way, you need to have a brief chat with both if them and make it clear that they made you suicidal and you never want to see them ever again. The rest is down to you.

Oof man, that's heavy. I guess the best I can say here is to remember that these overwhelming emotions are temporary. There's no doubt you can still live happily after this whole scenario settles down.

I'll help you out man, we can talk privately about this. I sorta had a similar issue. we can text or on groupme

In my opinion, you should break up with them and move on. I know its hard but, its better than holding on to that incident, right?

Gosh....that really is some heavy shit...

And just today I felt like self-harming only because no one was listening to me. I hear stories from people like you and realise that I should be grateful I'm not in a situation like them...It really is true when they say there's someone dealing with worse shit than you...

Without the direct need to apologize to you I'm very sorry for thinking the way I did. And I hope you change your mind on the suicide attempt. Even though you don't realise, just by you living and existing you give those around you the strength they sometimes lack.

Despite the flood of emotions you are experiencing within yourself, talk to both of them. Demand an explanation. It might make you angry and cause you to cry and scream. But the closure will be needed and you will somewhat better when you let it all out.

You need to cry, scream, and let it all out. All of it.
Try your hardest to continue with life. Continue living. No matter how much of a bitch it is.

I know you have no purpose to live now. But make that your purpose.
Make it your purpose to find purpose again in your life. For that reason alone, continue living!

Email me please at
djbabe.dollars@gmail.com
For whatever reason, I will be here for you!

wow. Just kick them out of your house and beat up your friend. That's a bitch move from both of their parts. Clearly they don't care about you so stand up for yourself. You are the only real friend you have.

Don't give up? IDK, try hard not to kill yourself, or anyone for that matter.

This is just an obstacle you have to go through in life, i know it's a hard one but you'll be stronger once you live through the experience, you'll find the right one someday just don't give up hope, the world is full of amazing people, one day you'll find some of those people and they'll be your real friends, LIVE.