So, upon personal inspection, I've realized that I'm an EXTREMELY judgemental person. It's not so much that I think I'm better than anyone--because believe me, I don't--but it's moreso that I tend to become disgusted with people based on their life decisions or habits.
I know that most people are like this, but I'm worried that my judginess will get out of hand. I feel like I'm going to severely hurt someone with my bullshit. Does anyone have any idea how to reduce the level of judge in a person?

I have similar problems judging people too much, and what I do is let the thought go through my head and judge them for myself but not outloud. If I think it's something they need to fix, I'll start casually implying it through conversation, but I never outright say it too their face. If I judge them in my head and think it's something minor that they don't need to fix but still bothers me I look at the things they do good and don't focus on it. It doesn't always work but I hope this helps!

Why stop?
judge em all you want
just don't show it on your face

Maybe just try to be a little more focused on youself and simply let the others do what they want to. I believe this is one of the hardest things to do, but maybe one day you'll realize why some people make choices that are bad in your opinion, but fine in theirs. Everyone has different point of view after all. You don't have to approve of their choices, you just have to understand their reasons behind them

Well, one way to stop would be to stop and think about why your judging that person and what you personally know about them. When a person does something you don't like, you can stop and say ew they're a disgusting person but you can also stop and ask yourself why they are doing it. Most judged people are far from what you think they are. You really don't very entirely know another person or exactly what your going through. So yeah, you can start asking why they are doing it???

Everyone judges everyone, at least subconsciously. I judge everyone I meet; I've already judged you to some extent. There's nothing wrong with judging. Just don't judge from a one-sided point of view. Judge people in a very open-minded way so you judge then fairly. Judging someone doesn't mean doing anything about it aswell. You don't need to assert your opinion everywhere you go unless you want to portray yourself as an attention-seeker. You can tell people how you judge them if you feel they need to know and if they get upset about it, ask them to marry you because why would you care about one single opinion out of a few billion in the world and become sad about it unless you were the centre of their life? You can tell then that, but in a more polite way.

Judging is fine. Believing your judgement is always right makes you cocky.

Humans are not perfect, I mean, look at what we've achieved, global warming, genocide, reality TV, the list goes on and on, so it's fine to judge people, just don't believe it until you know them better. And remember, other people are bound to judge you to. So your not alone

>>1 How bloody generalized can your name be? Everyone lives to die. I mean, when we are born, we are already doomed to die. Kinda disappointed you couldn't come up with a better name.

>>8 judging someone who judges others. Circle of life.

>>1 don't stop. I mean it's not like you can (well maybe you could. I find that extremely hard). "I feel like I'm going to severely hurt someone with my bullshit." I'm an asshole so you might not want to take my advice, but personally, I feel if someone can't handle someone else's opinions than that's their choice/not your fault. Perhaps you should be nicer, but do that with caution. Everyone's judging you and you are judging everyone. Whether it is positive or negative or whatever on either end, it doesn't really fucking matter.

If you judge others and want them to change themselves (without good reason. Perhaps, you want them to change for the better, but something that's actually better, not something petty) that's the problem. If you don't, then don't worry. =/ It is what it is.

>>9 Hey, why did you say that, I was trying to get him know by himself.

I am with >>9 on this,

>>1

Also you automatically judge people without thinking about it as it's all going on subconsciously in the back of your head and it just bulbs up, it also like how everyone's brain is wired to see faces even if it is a random formation of rocks, clouds, or whatever.

The only thing you can do is how you *react* ignore or accept how someone may look or dress, as someone may not be able to buy the newest cloths.

0.0 Just remember that whatever fault you're pinpointing in someone else may actually be within you too.

Hmmm...I do like what you said >>9 . It's not so much that I'm solely judging them just to judge, it's more like--as you said--wanting them to change for the better. Typically I can realize when my reason is petty, which is when I try not to say anything. But if the person is destructive to themselves or others, I tend to want them to change.

It's kind of like a ridiculous spiral of nonsense. I'll truly try my hardest to not at least let my judginess show on the outside.

>>12 Truth, truth.