Hey. I made this because I have depressions friendship-wise. And yes I know that it may be a small thing, but I just want to know how to stop feeling depressed.

To start with, I have problems I would need to keep secret in friendships. Im a therian, im lesbian, etc. Also, the current friends I do have that are near me most of the time, are more concentrated on an other one of my friends, and barely any of them come to me to hang out at all, im the one almost always having to come to them. Another thing is that , for some of my friends, they would not accept me if I told them I was a therian or was lesbian. The other friends, like I stated, would just hang out alot with the "popular friend" (i guess). Am I just being jealous, or do I just have bad friends?

Also, why I would not just dis-friend them is because I don't want to hurt their feelings, even though I know they hurt mine. Maybe it's because I am to attached to them and giving them to much of my loyalty.

Hi Shirai~ don't apologize for posting here, your sadness is as valid as anyone else's.

I'm surely no expert on these, but.... perhaps you should try asking yourself whether these people really are your friends..

I do not mean to condescend you, but I will be blunt; if you're the type of person who can't eat lunch alone, who can't stand being alone, even if the 'relationships' you think you have are shallow, then by all means stick around them until you find new people who'll actually be your friend. Don't worry, I acknowledge the fact that not everyone xan readily severe ties wih anyone because of the awkwardness of being a total outcast (but even if you were in this group, aren't you still basically an outcast?)

BUT if you're the type who is brave enough to face the world even without friends (albeit temporarily), then perhaps you'd better severe your relationship with these people. I'd honestly do this because I find hanging out with the type of people you mentioned very exhausting and pointless.

There are many ways to go about your situation, so feel free to disregard or disagree with mine. Besides, I barely know the full details of your situation, just the ones your posted.

Good luck with your situation.

Thanks for the support