so i am bisexual. and i am unhappy in my relationship with my boyfriend. he is sweet, he is nice but.. he does not give me what i need, he is so boring, and that is just how he is. his personality cannot be changed and i do not ask him to change either. i did make an effort by asking if we could go out more on social activities but.. he said yes but... he just aren't energy enough for making me feel happy. i don´t think we match. and whats worse is that i lost my feelings and i´m starting to consider a relationship with a GIRL.. it´s the first time! I'm so confused.. and i feel bad as well. i mean what if i were in his shoes and i would get dumped because my partner turned gay? it´s not a bad thing with being gay. but for me, i it is a new and unexplored subject that i am a bit insecure about. i will break up with him. i mean, i don´t feel anything for him. and if i keep living in this relationship will hurt him as well. but I'm afraid of myself now. what will happen? i need help.. i´m so confused :(

and sure, i would rather be single instead of being in a bad relationship. but what confuses me the most is the situation..

Are you a girl or a boy? Im confuse right now.

i am a girl

and i am starting to like girls. i know i can't be with him any longer. but what happens next is the thing that makes me insecure. i just discovered that i like girls! it´s nothing wrong with it but it´s so new and it´s a new chapter that honestly makes me a bit scared..

Like any one you fucking want
have fun
dont hang out with people you dont like simple

Well to be frank.
It's a bad thing dumping your boyfriend like that without saying anything to him.
You can be honest like.."YOu know Im bored of you..can we make something more fun?"
Or..."well..im starting to unlike you because you dont satisfy me that much."
If he acts violently..let him..it's not a problem right?
If he acts like a cat sobbing for you not to think that..then it means it's not his fault being a guy who seems to be not your type.
And I guess, that new chapter of yours liking girls. I think it's a temporary case which some time it will vanish.
Well if you're going to ask me..I often have other crushes even though I have my 1 year and 11 months boyfriend.
I say it to him and sometimes he rage but afterwards he'll accept it..anyway..crush and love is different.
So that's what I wanna share..I hope that helped even the slightest.

All good, that's normal I think. I myself am getting confused too. I honestly do not mind dating a girl (not thinking about bed stuff or anything, just pure love) but then I did get dumped twice by the same guy so..... well who knows? Maybe because of that I'm trying to find more options. I think I am pansexual (trans are fine, anyone with any sexuality) but I am only talking about LOVING XD I think you should wait, don't do anything you might regret!!! Also, don't be around someone you don't feel happy with. I'm sure you'll be doing the right thing if you tell him honestly that you don't feel anything and so it should end. I believe he will get upset but deep down a part of him will be be thankful :) good luck!

My sister has been a LOT of relationships and she's always the one breaking their hearts. But later on, she becomes normal friends with them. Maybe do what she does, unless being friends also bores you. At least still be kind to him.

Well as a christian it's really bad for us liking someone with the same gender.
And yes it's really true..that liking someone with the same gender will guide you through confusion and problems in your personal life.
It's not bad being gay or lesbian..just dont go too far from being like being in a relationship or anything worse.
I think being gay or lesbian is uncontrollable..but still..you can avoid it if you really wanna avoid it.
I know this sound crazy since I know some(most) are atheist here. Im just doing my mission as a christian by telling people what I know about things I know. Giving knowledge is enough.

i have broke up with him now.. i really could not take it anymore.. there was a reason why i wanted to be with him in the first place, and that was his personality. but i think that we could not be more than friends, he still write to me. and we talk a little. i know i broke his heart. but i could not do anything about it! if i just stopped loving him then why would i be with him? a relationship is based on love right? and just because i broke up with him in a love relationship. does not mean that i wanted to break our friendship. i really think that he is a sweet guy. if i were interested in guys i would still love him. and it pains me to know that.. but if the closest thing i can get is a friendship, then i´m going to be his friend. i do know that i may hurt him more if i´m too much on him right now. so I'm going to give him the time he needs. but really.. i feel terrible.. i thought that we could make it trough by trying out new stuff, but it did not help at all :( and.. i just lost my feelings too.. i wish that we never fallen in love, and just remained friends. he does not need a heartbreak like this. I'm so sorry....

Sexuality is more fluid with bisexuals and others of that branch. It can be frustrating, but you can't control it. I'd break up with him, and without TRYING, see how my feeling develop probably