>>1 Actually, it depends on the language because in Indonesian I think they only have one word (dia) which means he/she. There's no perfect language, there's flaws in all of them but the main ones I guess either aren't obvious or things that only apply to specific kind of people/situations. I guess you're a bit unlucky in that regard then for your main language not working well in that way.
Props to you though for feeling genderless though. I really like the idea of seeing things that way because you would see everyone equally and not have the involuntary bias or scewed perception from being obviously of one gender.
But one question though. I mean, the main significance about genders is finding a partner or "true love" or whatever you want to call it so does that stuff just not matter to you? Or even, do you think that being genderless is more of a way of considering everyone, rather than feeling that you're only allowed to consider half the people here?
Idk, I find people like you interesting, let us know what happens. Oh, and one last thing. Do you feel like you're "too different" to others, or "normal people"? The way it sounds is that you look like you need to find the kind of people who won't misunderstand the problems caused by our limited language/labelling system. Nothing works perfectly for everything, but rather works good enough for most things, meaning that if you're in the minority you might need to find those "special kind" of people who can truly accept you.
Anyway, I tend to ramble on too much with random gibberish. I hope I at least made some sense :/. See ya, and good luck figuring this out ^^
