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Just pouring my heart in the Personal board. Dont know who else I can go to. (5)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2015-10-23 13:17 ID:Tnp8KE3V [Del]

I have been having an emotional problem in my life. It is not unique and it is the same old same old. But I think I have been spiraling into a form of depression because of it. I really don't know what to do.

About a month ago, someone I love and me haven't been talking. The reason is that she moved to Texas and I tried to keep in contact and as she tells me she is a huge introvert and that tires her out. I am ashamed of the whole thing and I just feel alone as me and her were the closest of friends. I love her with all my heart and she has drifted away because I told her that I liked her.

I haven't had the best of thoughts lately. Every where I go I miss her and a lot of value in my life has left. Why?...
Well because people in this world just suck. They want something and they bore you with clichés but when me and her were together we never had clichés.

We used to constantly play with each other, talk to each other about daily stories, going salsa dancing in the city, rock climbing where ever, we used to get weird looks on the bus as we used to play this game where we made up stories and took turns adding to the plot, I miss reading books together and sharing songs, I miss those darn times where we used to go to coffee shops in the city. This girl was the world to me because she added something to my life that no one could. To this day no one has been able to fill that void in my heart.

I know I have been depressed because from being an extrovert I turned introverted. I barely eat and I don't wish to go out at all, when that's all I ever did. I lost the love of my life due to life and over this past month I have only been hurting bad for it.

I really don't know what to do and slowly I am becoming an extreme different type of guy. When I loss her, I feel like I loss a lot. I need help.

2 Name: Larry's mom : 2015-10-23 16:38 ID:zyru5nls [Del]

If you're this close to each other, then u have a big chance that she likes u too, she may be just shy to show her true feelings, but if you think that she's really avoiding u, then all u can do is wait with a big patience, in anyway waiting is the solution for ur case, it can bring back ur friend, or it can bring someone else whom may be better

3 Name: Larry's mom : 2015-10-23 16:40 ID:zyru5nls [Del]

I'm just trying to help u, I don't know if u find this answer logic or not, anyway, leave ur comment here :D

4 Name: Stelsf!ItzqXKEcbs : 2015-10-23 18:17 ID:dMhMSaWP [Del]

Heey.. First of all i would like to tell you that everything will get better, one way or another. People in your life will always leave you and you are always gonna have to say goodbye to people. I know it's harsh for you. Having to say goodbye to someone you used to be together so often must have been hard for you. You are going to experience pain in the worst ways possible. You are going to wake up at the late am hours and wonder where your precious friend is now? If shes thinking about you and even if shes ok. But don't worry. Just as you are having a tough time facing this situation, she is having the same issues. Right now she might be thinking and wondering if you think about her or if you have overcome her departure. Shes stressed and shes facing a lot of changes right now. Give her the time to relax and to adapt there. I don't advice you to cut all ties with her. But its only logical that shes a bit cut off from you now that shes away. Talk to her daily, try to help her if she needs it. And eventually things will work out :) . I wish you all the best.

5 Name: ILoveHumans<3 : 2015-10-23 23:09 ID:RO8r/vlN [Del]

>>1 Friend Zone?