Hi guys, i wanted to know how i should tell my mum about me being a lesbian i have told my father and grandma and they didn't take it very will and i my father told me not to tell mum but i really want too and now i don't know what to do.

this is certainly a difficult decision. I don't know what kind of person your mum is so i cant tell what her reaction would be, but if your father thinks its a bad idea you should be careful about the way you tell her. Spend more time with her first and help with chores etc then come out, she should accept and love you no matter what. you should definitely tell her because she will not like being the last one to know, and she could find it offensive. Good luck :)

Thats allways dificult to tell dont worry about it you shoul take it easy and think about the best way to tell her in my case was very embarasing (Im a man) but if you and your mother have a great bound its not a problem i know how you feel in my case my mom and i have a great bound and she already know it even before i told her dont worry and sorry if i
dont wrote very well is because im spanish and is dificult to speak but any way the onlyone who can decide about tell her or not is you because you are her daughter(i dont remember how
to write that word sorry...) and she is your mother and that is the important that was what my mom told me that and what she will love me wathever ill be and that is the important, good luck with that

"You can' say, 'Say it, they'll accept it'. Some people can;t get down just because you're different."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vYoapICIfeE

I'm not showing this video because I'm telling you it's bad to come out, I'm just saying that it may not be a good idea if you have doubts that that person will accept you for who you are

Your dad and Grandma may not accept it, but Im sure they'll love you no matter what. It's up to you to tell your mom. Tell her when YOU are ready, not when you feel like you absolutely have to. I wish you best of luck!