my friends parents say that they will move her to Virginia, and we live in MA unless she can straitened up. She have great grades and a great attitude, but there was a mishap with her aunt. What should I tell her and how can I help!!!

help her straighten up, what do you mean by straighted up?
like cleaning her room and stuff?

Some things a friend just can't help with... The thing is, you have to face the fact that your out of this circle, you are out of this situation, and the only thing you can try to do is motivate or convince your friend to do what their parents want them to do, but it all comes down to your friend and their parents. You don't have a real direct effect on the situation, so your best bet is to just try and motivate your friend to do what their parents are asking.

She says it is how she acts around her family