Hello. If anyone can, I need some advice.
Basically I'm confused. I think I might be bisexual, but I'm really not sure. Throughout elementary and middle school, I have always had crushes on boys (I'm a girl). Not many, I can probably count the amount of crushes I have had on one hand, but still always boys. I'm fifteen now, and lately things have been different. I find myself feeling attracted to both males and females. Sometimes it's mostly girls, sometimes it's mostly boys. But I just don't understand how up until maybe about a year (or a little less) ago, I was always attracted to boys, and boys only. So why is it different now? Is this something that becomes clear as you get older? Is that why this is happening now? Or is it just a phase or something? Please, forgive my cluelessness.
And another thing. Sometimes I think about the future, about dating, like most teenagers do. Sometimes I picture myself on a first date with a boy. And sometimes I picture the same situation with a girl. Please don't get offended, I really do support gay and bisexual relationships. But if I picture myself on a date with a girl, my mind rejects it. I immediately stop thinking about it. I think that maybe I'm scared. Scared of being bisexual, because of what others might think. But maybe this means I'm not? Or am I just denying it, out of fear of being judged?
Please help me. I am young, and probably sound very stupid and clueless, and I'm sorry. I'm just hoping that someone who is older or knows more can help me and give me advice so I can stop feeling so confused.
Thank you in advance to anyone who can help. :)

That is totally normal. You see the reason you have been starting to get these feelings is because you are more aware of your sexuality then earlier.

In your age people discover who they are and who they want to be. I have multiple friends who have been in the same situation as you and the only real advice i can give you [Lame expression incoming] Is to listen to your heart. What do YOU really want.

You might like boys, You might like girls, like you said yourself you might even like both. This is something that only you yourself can find out. No one else can decide how you feel.

This is an important decision for you, don't rush to find the answer. Take some time to think it trough, But don't be afraid to act once you have reached a decision.

Hope it helped, and best of luck

>>1 Okay I found this interesting. Firstly off, I'm a guy and I'm straight so I'm not going to be much help or have any idea what it's like but I'm curious. In my opinion, you could almost see it as a gift. I've had the opposite problem where I can in no way feel attracted to guys in anyway. I've tried thinking of things like that but it always ends up grossing me out too much. It's not that I'm trying to become gay but rather feel that it would be useful for my perception. Being bisexual to me just feels like you can look at everyone equally. I mean, I just feel so biased being clearly more interested in girls than guys and I'm not even just talking about love anymore.
But yeah, I can't give any advice but as someone completely ignorant to what it's like it looks like it could be a gift. I wouldn't be ashamed of it, the kind of people who would judge you or mistreat you for it aren't the kind of people you should care about to begin with.

But on to my curiousity. I apologise in advanced but I got tonnes of questions. So which gender does your body seem more interested in? And in the future do you picture yourself ending up with a guy or a girl? Or is it too early and you're just really confused and can't tell? Now you said that it just kind of happened yeah? So you don't in anyway feel like you had a choice over getting attracted to girls? Has your perception changed much from being bi now? Is there anything major that feels different that hasn't got anything to do with love etc.? Would you prefer to only like guys in that way? Maybe don't worrry about answering them until you've sorted a few things out and aren't as confused and lost. I'm really curious though.
Best of luck with it ^^

Complete normal, people change and people can have new attractions. No need to feel conflicted and try to go with the flow. Honestly.

Thank you for helping me :)

And >>3, I'll try to answer your questions. I'm really not sure if I will end up being with girls or boys in the future, I really think it is too early for me to tell. I think you had a very interesting perception, I have never thought about it that way. But I don't think there's any extremely major changes that have occurred. And I guess I did have a choice in becoming attracted to both genders. I mean, it wasn't like I got up one day and it just happened, it was more of a slow process....if that makes any sense. (it probably doesn't).
Sorry that really didn't answer any of your questions...I think I'm just still a bit confused. But I'm young, and I hope everything will become clear over time.
But thank you for responding to me. :)

Thank you to all of you :)

Hello this is my very first time on this website but I'll try my best to help. I am fifteen too and I suspect I am bisexual but more specifically pansexual. I have liked a girl before, she is an amazingly brave, secretly shy, wild (I know it doesn't make sense XD) and unique person. She is inlove with her best friend though. I wouldn't mind dating her or any other girl but I honeslyt hate girls in general (haha I'm female myself but I usually find females annnoying) there are ofcourse exceptions (girls I don't mind being around with/dating). Most of the time I am attracted to boys and I prefer boys over girls. If you truly fall inlove with the same gender then it is solid proof you are bi. I haven't truly fallen for another girl so I used the word 'suspect', so far I've only had a small crush for a girl. The issue with me is I don't want to have a relationship so I don't bother much with 'find my soulmate'. I hope my situation somehow helped you even though really, I'm ranting about myself XD

Im straight but you like what you like so there cant help who you fall in love with . Ps i got a gf since yesterday but we've been going at it for five years i should say we live together now lol

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Thank you for responding to me. I appreciate it:)

Hello, I am new here...
I am from Germany, going to school and I am a Otaku...
Yeah...I am happy that I am a Dollar now.

heyy im a guy who had a bromance towards someone. i would definitely look at guys i find attractive and go quiet whilst i think about whats happening. well this bromance was a one way thing, this guy helped me out a lot by backing me up and not caring about the consequences or what not. hes prepared to fight people or voice out in front of a crowd. but it wasnt just me that he acted like this so thats why i know its one way. something like thw being the hero for the weak.
so i was always happy when i spend time with him, like when ee eat lunch together at the canteen but he lived in a different world. cool kids while im in the calmer group. so we never hung out.
i would listen out for any news about him. if it was a fight i would be biased to him and blabla.
but i cant EVER imagine me doing anythong sexual with him. I dont ever think too much about it. i tried to think about gay sex during arousing times and ill just go limp.
im otherwise only attracted and have only slept with girls.
not sure but i think the best thing is to just let things happen. most school people you wont meet ever agn. breaking news becomes funny times a few years later.
my school was full of the joke of acting gay so i avoided most suspicious times anyway xD. getting my bum squeezed or me pretending to bite someone neck when im close to another guy was common.

theres my rant. ive had questional behaviour numerous times and do strongly believe i loved this dude. but im otherwise straight through and through. though i think guys can be just as hot as girls.
p.s. guys that look like girl fucks with me even more as if it weren't hard enough xD

same guy: and strangely i find tom boyish girls the best. jeans and messy shorter hair and bam ill walk through traffic to get a closer look.

so if anything. i learned to do what i will find most fun as my moto now. you enjoy life way more. you have questions about sexuality? squeeze that butt right there. did u feel it? no? okay i aint gay, so one more squeeze xD. i might still try date a guy in the future who knows? itll happen when it happens. relax and sleep well. that way youll look good and attract both genders intetionally or not and get more choices.
use protection and be mindful and youll be fine
2nd p.s. it gets harder to squeeze butts as u get older and with strangers. sad times. And i dont condone any butt squeezing actions. you do it at your own risk and u take responsibility. disclaimer disclaimer kek.

I'm going through the same literal thing, I'm in high school and idk what to do either so I'm just kinda going with it? I'm 15 and also a girl, I have been crushing on girls but at the same time if I think about getting in a relationship I don't like the idea of me and another girl I'm just like nah...I'm pretty sure it gets clearer so I'm just going with it

>>8 no problem :)

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Hopefully everything will become more clear for us in the future. :) Reading through the responses here though did help me so thank you everyone. :)
(Just in case it's not clear since the ID thing(sorry, not sure on the actual name of it) keeps changing I'm the same person who created this thread. The ID keeps changing since I was posting earlier under my usual name and not anonymously)

:)