My mother and my sister always fight, and I'm always there to see it. I want to tell them to stop, but both my sister and my mother have huge tempers, and I have a feeling that they'll just drag me into their fights. I have already told them to stop, but my mother just told me horrible things. Because of this, I can't tell them to stop, because my mother knows how to pick on my insecurities, and now, I just pretend that there's no fight going on, and it's sapping my energy emotionally. I want to come out to my mother, but I'm scared to. Please give me advice.

It is pretty draining to have such fights go on constantly, I empathize. But there is no way to go around it besides being patient. Your mother is, well, your mother. She knows you almost inside and out, the more you interfere, the worse it'll get. It's not like in those animes where if the daughter suddenly screams out then the mother finally "understands", just doesn't work out.

You should possibly try talking with your sister. Siblings can come to an understanding that parents can never get a grasp of. Until you or her are independent, tell her she should just agree to what her mother is saying unless it's something dangerous, etc etc. you can decide that.

Kill Your MOM :)

>>3 Hey hey, do not incentivize killing anyone, including relatives, even if they did bad things. Violence is not the answer.
>>1 I really dont know how your family works, and i dont know if your father is present. If he is, and if he is a good person that could help in anyway, you should consider ask him to talk to you mom, just like >>2 said, he probably can "understand" your mom better. If my assumptions were wrong, you could, again, do as >>2 said, and always in a silent way, not yelling trying to stop the fight. I hope i could help.

This is the exact same position I am in, and it sucks when people think you're a goody-goody two shoes at school, but really, you're rotting on the inside.

All I can tell you to do is that you have to, get out of that situation. Not your mom, but everyone around you. (Even your sister.) My counselors have always told me this but, I never really listened to them. But, one day, I couldn't take it anymore. I took my sister, my brother, and dad, and took them to a park.

We all talked about our problems and figured out a lot of things. We went back home after about 30 minutes and she was gone. (Only for about 2 days.)

Just saying this might not work. I don't know how extreme or tame your family is. But this is the best idea I have. Sorry if it doesn't work, but I thought it might help. I'm sorry about your problem at home, II really am. But just try my advice. Be safe!