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3 questions (17)

1 Name: xXTrollzayaXx : 2015-10-05 05:52 ID:QdtP0GHm [Del]

Honestly I'll be straight to the point this time. I have 3 questions:
1.What does it mean if you contradict everything you say?
2.How do you trust aomeone?
3.Is there a way for me to simply detach myself from the world?
Please I need answers quick

2 Name: Beyond : 2015-10-05 06:02 ID:qU4DYSue [Del]

1. dont know
2. talk to them long enough to trust them.
3. watch anime duh!!!

3 Name: whuwa : 2015-10-05 06:05 ID:O17E5Bkw [Del]

ha...alright lemme try:

1. contradicting yourself means you opposed your former words or beliefs.
2. Everyone finds a different way of doing this, you give them a reason to trust you and you might find out how this is done. Some people just don't like to trust at all.
3. To detach yourself from the world? The most simplest and common yet hard-to-master way is through meditation. Thinking about life, reassessment. This is how for many years, people have been able to detach themselves from society and daily trivial matters.

4 Name: xXTrollzayaXx : 2015-10-05 08:09 ID:QdtP0GHm [Del]

>>2 honestly that's what I've been doing for the past few days and haven't got much sleep

5 Name: Neko : 2015-10-05 09:36 ID:22w4AK+l [Del]

1. Either hypocrisy or emotional conflict
2. Your heart will tell
3. The moment you posted this thread, you're linking yourself to this world. Don't bother detaching yourself

6 Name: xXTrollzayaXx : 2015-10-05 21:23 ID:fqsxaz89 [Del]

>>5 Actually I was thinking of trying to detach myself from the world because I'm kinda over people.... They annoy me more than anything so I wanted to go back to being the quiet person on the sidelines that nobody knew about or remembered

7 Name: Neko : 2015-10-05 21:36 ID:22w4AK+l [Del]

>>6
That's more like making yourself scarce rather than detaching yourself =w=
okay,so do these things
-don't look at them in the eye
-Use simple gestures like nodding or shaking your head instead of words whenever possible
-Avoid social spotlights including social networks
-Replace your real name in Facebook and the like with a nickname that few people know about
-Make as little noise as possible anywhere you go

And you're all set for a non-existential life

8 Name: Frost : 2015-10-05 22:40 ID:zZ0L/n1D [Del]

be a ghost

9 Name: ETRerdi : 2015-10-06 05:27 ID:YpQe5ucf [Del]

Fuck everything i dont care nothing and i dont trust anyone

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12 Name: xXTrollzayaXx : 2015-10-06 07:32 ID:fqsxaz89 [Del]

>>7 I do that anyway..... that's why most people are scared of me and it makes me an easy target for bullying at school

13 Name: Shiruka : 2015-10-06 09:42 ID:A9SYCteg [Del]

1. it means you're emotionally defective (like me)
2. simple, you don't do anything, eventually, you'll trust a person
3. sleep

14 Name: xXTrollzayaXx : 2015-10-06 21:31 ID:fqsxaz89 [Del]

>>13 Thanks this is probably the most helpful one here

15 Name: toforeversigh : 2015-10-07 08:56 ID:8kd8gHWS [Del]

>>1 You're questions seem related to each other so I'm not going to split this up into three answers. To trust someone is to have a strong enough bond with someone that you know they will never intentionally lie or withhold things from you. I guess a better way of describing trust is that it's more about the probability that they will lie to you. People mainly tell the truth and how likely it is that they will depends on the person. Under the right circumstances though anyone will lie. So if you're looking at complete trust then it's something that goes beyond the probabilities and circumstances where you can truly trust them with anything. It's something really special though so I always end up describing things like that as a true bond or connection. I don't know if they exist though, because after all, we're all still imperfect humans.
I know I started with your second question but they all go together so just bare with me. It is both your second and third questions that answer your first one. You want to detach yourself from the world and you ask if you can trust people. It's only after giving up on the world that you can ask these kind of questions and what's next is the contradictory situation we are left with. The answer is that we are born into this world and are stuck in it. We want to exist in a different world but we truly know deep down that there's no leaving this one. So we have two perceptions on this world; 1) We've given up and will truly find nothing meaningful and fulfilling in this life but then after that we get, 2) We know that we're stuck here so we wonder if there truly is something here for us. That is a contradictory perception. To believe two things that contradict each other.

I don't know how well I explained that but the fact is that this life is contradictory. It's designed in a way where we both want and feel two opposite things. An example would be when it comes to people. If you think everyone else is just shallow and boring then you want two things; you don't want to see other people because they annoy you but you also want to see other people in hopes that you find someone interesting.

I don't think we can truly disconnect from this world. I think that would just be living in denial and hiding from the truth. It reminds me of a question actually; Would you rather live a happy lie or see a harsh truth? I think I said it wrong but you get the idea. It's hard to say which path is the right one to take sometimes.
Anyway, I don't know how helpful any of this is going to be but I'll leave you with one last thought.

If you don't like the real world then why not create your own world? You can take that anyway you want ^^

PS I think I might have gotten the wrong idea from the first one so my bad... And I guess this probably wasn't the kind of answers you were looking for. Oh well, I'll post it anyway just in case.

16 Name: Natsumii : 2015-10-07 21:47 ID:2HmI8WGC [Del]

I don't know about the other two, but I do know the last one. DO NOT SLEEP TO DETACH YOURSELF FROM THE WORLD!! I don't know how to explain it, but DON'T! If you want to detach yourself from the world (Which isn't the best idea.) try to meditate. It makes anybody calm down when they need help or if they just don't feel right. I'm not saying this is a fact, but this can make you understand a lot about things you never even knew were unaware of. Buddah didn't eat for a month because he was meditating for that whole month. It made him understand the problems in the world around him. You honestly don't have to meditate if you don't want to, but it really helps when you're not feeling right.

17 Name: xXTrollzayaXx : 2015-10-11 08:11 ID:fqsxaz89 [Del]

>>15 Tbh this was actually really helpful, I never thought of it that way