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Jealous "friend"? (6)

1 Name: V : 2015-09-25 09:43 ID:eJ1Zja+P [Del]

I'm not really looking for advice, mainly because I can't see a solution to this without a huge arguement, so let me complain a little about something.
So there was one best friend I had for like 11 years, also she was my classmate for those years and when we got to high school she wanted to look cool so she started lying about her life such as that she has a japanese father and swedish mother, that I was her cousin, that she had a boyfriend in America and she had some friends nobody knew about but later we found their pictures on google.
So yeah, she made a few lies about her life, but actually I didn't mind, but people found that out after a while, and they started hating on her
I somehow still didn't care because she was my best friend, but I also wanted to have a good relationship with my class so I was neutral about the whole thing.
So many things happened and that girl started 'buying' friends for herself from the class. She gave food to others and gifts and things like this, and we slowly became strangers from besties.
I didn't mind because friends will always come and go but she has that bad habit of hers that she wants things from others, and by that I mean she gets pushy to whoever I talk to. I'm not afraid of her taking my friends because I have plenty of them and she doesn't even know most of them but once she finds out who I talked to she looks at them like they've been best friends for ages, npt caring about what my friends want to say about it.
So yeah, I can only guess that she's being jealous or simply has a bad personality, even if it's hard to admit.
Sorry if I took your time I just really had to bitch about this situation.:D

2 Name: Quwerta : 2015-09-25 10:52 ID:2BU+wa/v [Del]

I actually found it interesting ^^ Psychology's a fun thing~

3 Name: V : 2015-09-25 15:06 ID:eJ1Zja+P [Del]

Ahahaha :D
I also found it interesting when I realised why she's being like that, and I feel sorry for it but I had to laugh, actually. I don't know why, it's just weird how the people who have been hated for some reason become over-confident when they finally have a friend who cares about them. :D

4 Name: cats : 2015-09-25 16:08 ID:BxRHI6cJ [Del]

Hmmm.. confront your friend about it . You know what is wrong , what is right , you know what is the more logically , morally right way to act, you know her flaws in personality , confront her about it

5 Name: The K : 2015-09-25 17:46 ID:Nx3xJfsZ [Del]

She's immature, that's all. I really find interesting how people act in such a strange way.

6 Name: V : 2015-09-26 08:52 ID:eJ1Zja+P [Del]

To Cats : during our 11 years I always did that, but I no longer feel the need to do it.

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I also wrote that short story down because I think it was good to share what can happen when you help someone who's not that popular or has a bad personality. I feel bad for saying this because I'm usually nice but yea, some people are just not worth it :D
btw thanks for caring about my story even if I said it is not something you should care about.
Dollars ppl are awesome.