Maybe some of you guys have experienced this and I would like to ask for some advice. I am a sickly and weak person and I feel like a burden to the people around me so I always try my best to compensate for the troubles I have brought to them by helping them, making them happy and reaching every single demands and expectations they have from me. They loved me and cared for me because of this. Just to please them, most of the time I would turn myself into someone that I am not just not to disappoint them and it hurts so much. I couldn't stop being like this because the people around me would hate me and call me a fake person and I would be alone and unloved again just like before. I don't really know what to do and I have no one else to tell this problem.

Well, it may be a bit harsh, but in my opinion you should live your life for yourself. If you're not happy about something - change it. Be yourself and the people that care for you and love you for real will still do. Don't you feel like you're being used sometimes? So what if you disappoint a person or two? Don't disappoint yourself for not doing what you feel is good. Find something you love and do it often. Be who you wanna be and the right people will surely like you for that. It's better to have a few good friends than many fake ones, right? Be true to yourself and if you think that's the real you, than nobody has the right to call you fake. Start by little things, be more assertive in common situations and remember - it's ok to feel insecure, to disappoint somebody, to make mistakes. The only people that are never wrong are those, that don't do anthing. It's your life and it's all up to you ^^