1 Name: Dafuqdude : 2015-09-22 20:16 ID:NHJP/vCY [Del]
So I was dating this girl, and we were doing just fine... but every now and then she would just start to complain, "I feel so unhappy my life suck yada yada". Every time I attempted to talk about it she just said she was feeling unhappy... felt like I was talking to a 15 old emo...
On friday we had an argument, she started saying that we should break up, that I would end up hurt and stuff, bla bla, I said I liked her and things ended with her asking me not to give up on her...
Next day she had to go on a 3h work trip, if she got all the job done b4 the night she would return and we would spend the rest of the week end at her place. At night she said she was going to come back, I asked her if she still wanted me to tag along with her to her place. After that not a single word... She was driving, at 1 am, on a 3h trip so I wanted, 4 h latter not a single word.
On the next day I receive a message saying, I just got home. So she spent the night in another town because she was tiered, but could not spend the time to tell me that... She only told me at the end of her trip, and since we had the next 2 days off, she could have stooped by my place and lunch with me or something (we live in different towns, 1h apart), it was on her way home, so she passed by my place and didn't cared to come by...
I got pissed we had another discussion, I was pissed because I was worried, I was pissed because I felt ignored, I was pissed by her childish behavior. I said to her if she was going to keep like I was going to leave her. Her answer, I'm tiered of all of this, it's over you and me are over. My answer, ok.
Now 3 days latter she is calling me and venting out on fb that some times ppl only notice there mistakes when its too late. I did not answer, was working.
I rly don't know what to do... I should give it some time to think but having some one's opinion may give me perspective and help me make a decision. I do like her but I can't stand that kind of behavior. Dunno if I should give it another try... or if things will just repeat themselves.
2 Name: Jackal !cL.gmKE9/Q : 2015-09-22 23:22 ID:9BY8mkwo [Del]
You're inevitably going to find things you don't like about a person you spend a lot of time with. It just seems much more glaring because you seem to have strong feelings for her. If you really do love her, you'll find a way to make it work. I hope that helps.
