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I'm lost. (11)

1 Name: Salander : 2015-09-14 23:27 ID:+KglbUf8 [Del]

Recently I've been dealing with on and off feelings with this guy I've known for almost 2 years.
I should mention I'm 16. Normally I don't get so attached to people, but he was a special exception. Him and I both got out of the same type of issues. It's hard to just let go of someone like this. He's 20.. He was 19 when we first met.
I traveled from school, work, the home constantly and I never really had time to really mingle.
A friend of mine decided to take me to a local street fair and that's when I actually talked to him. We traded information and became close friends. I've been through a rocky past relationship and he kinda helped. We hung out a lot during the summer admitted how he felt for me then blew it off like he never said anything. Hooked up with another girl, and treated me like shit. I kept to myself, then opened myself up again, I went to local shows, chatted on here more often and then he came back after the chick dumped him.
Fast forward to now, he and I got close again, ignored me, insults me more and gets pissed when I fight back. Now he's dating another girl a year younger than me, that he just barely Metz and actually is being watched by an informer that his friend sent after. , I'm just so confused on everything currently. just need some help from you guys..

2 Name: NZPIEFACE : 2015-09-15 02:07 ID:PkSfTU2O [Del]

My first impression from this post is, he only talked to you because he was a lolicon, now you are out of his target age

3 Name: Ignight : 2015-09-15 10:01 ID:Kj2lBWPc [Del]

I don't this is too uncommon nowadays, and I hate it...

STOP BEING SO SUBMISSIVE, if he treats you even remotely poorly, chances are - you deserve better. And think about your friends, if your 'boyfriend' keeps hurting you, you might accept it, but your friends won't and stuff like that hurts your friends a million times more than it hurts you (unless you don't have good friends, if so then, well if you're not an average slut (and you're probably not since you're on this website) then I CARE ABOUT YOU).
Guys who act like this should be shunned. And you grills by 'not-minding' them only encourage such behavior. While obviously he's in the wrong here, chances are, he isn't going to change much.
While this may seem ironic coming from someone giving 'advice' DON'T EVER NO MATTER WHAT LET ANYONE CHANGE YOU!!!!!

4 Name: Salander : 2015-09-15 15:32 ID:+KglbUf8 [Del]

Thank you guys so much.

5 Name: ShinAttha : 2015-09-15 17:35 ID:9ZMuo7fd [Del]

Forget that guy. Honestly, you're just being used by him whenever he loses one of his girls, he totally abuses you.
Do you really have feelings for a person like that? Even if he can be sweet at times, he's obviously faking it to wrap you around his fingers while he has nothing better to do.
You are attached to him because he used to help you out, but that doesn't allow him to treat you like that.

6 Name: Fortune !o3hBg9PyEE : 2015-09-15 17:56 ID:7hRLO/Wc [Del]

Ignore him. He's not worth your time.

7 Name: Shado : 2015-09-15 19:16 ID:GR6JKtTf [Del]

Ignore him and maybe you don't really have feelings for him and if I were in your place I would give him a punch in the face, just cheer up and move on I am sure you will find a better person.

8 Name: Shado : 2015-09-15 19:19 ID:GR6JKtTf [Del]

Bump

9 Name: Nai : 2015-09-15 23:35 ID:q+VabrBE [Del]

Leave him. I'd cut ties with him entirely.

10 Name: kuroo-inu : 2015-09-16 19:54 ID:/vrj+VBl [Del]

if i could, i would kick him in the shin for you-- you deserve much better and its good to move on

11 Name: Kearon Izaya : 2015-09-16 23:04 ID:pILSLDJ9 [Del]

You know it's illegal to have any certain relations with minors at his age you know. Use that to your advantage. Like blackmail him and make him suffer. Make his life miserable for what he did to you. Oh, and get those other girls he dumped in on it too. It'll be so much fun. Go ahead you have nothing to lose, he does.